The mobile phone itself is a product of interest, but at the same time it has become a plaything of interest. We humans may have to be with mobile phones for a long time in the future.
But since the advent of the mobile phone, its merits and demerits have become a topic that people talk about after dinner.
For a parent whose child does not study well because he loves playing games, he would definitely say that the mobile phone is a heinous guy. It is the mobile phone that poisons teenagers. It prevents them from studying hard and just likes to play games.
Mobile phones have become the public enemy of many people. They even made up a lot of jokes criticizing the negative effects of mobile phones. In fact, these people poured a lot of dirty water on their mobile phones because their children did not learn well because of playing with mobile phones.
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What's the crime with the mobile phone? Is it gratuitous? The mobile phone is there. Whether you play with it or not is your business. It has nothing to do with the mobile phone. The mobile phone will say that you should play with me quickly! I want you to play with me. It definitely doesn't
You would say so!
To say that mobile phones are sinful is not the same as what we often say: beauty is a disaster. Is beauty really a disaster? Obviously there is no reason.
There is nothing wrong with beauties, and there is nothing wrong with women. What is wrong is men and those insidious and treacherous villains. So what if Wu Sangui got angry because of beauties? No matter whether he broke up with Li Zicheng because of Chen Yuanyuan or not. In short, this matter
It has nothing to do with Chen Yuanyuan. It is a matter between men. Even if it is really because of Chen Yuanyuan's beauty that led to the change of dynasties, it is not Chen Yuanyuan's fault. Because a woman's beauty is an objective thing, not her own subjective
It can be controlled by will. What kind of objective impact will be exerted on one's own beauty is not something that a woman, as a subjective being, can decide.
A metaphor can be used to illustrate this matter. Suppose a beautiful woman is walking on the road, and then a young man walks across from her. Because he is attracted by her beauty, he accidentally hits a telephone pole.
Do you think this young man would be very angry with this beautiful woman? Then he would get angry at her and beat her up! Obviously this young man would not do this. Not only would he not be angry with the beautiful woman, but on the contrary
You will also feel a little happy.
Because this young man knows very well that this is not the fault of other people's beautiful women. It is his own fault. Who told him to only covet other people's beauty and forget about the telephone pole in front of him!
But if this young man continues to walk forward and is accidentally knocked down by a stone under his feet, he will definitely scold the stone and may even kick it. However, when he kicks the stone
, even though he kicked the stone away, his toes will definitely be very painful.
Therefore, when we treat the idiom that beauty is a disaster, we must use dialectical thinking to treat this word. Beauty is a disaster. It does not mean that beauty is a disaster. We can say that beauty is a disaster, but we cannot
It is a disaster to say that a beautiful woman is a woman. A woman is a woman, and a woman's beauty is a woman's beauty. These are two objects with different existences.
Women's beauty is indeed used to confuse men at first. But later it is more used to confuse women themselves. Just like men's power is used to bully women at first, but later it is used more to bully men.
A woman's beauty is not to defeat men, but to defeat other women. All the price a woman pays for her beauty is just because of the value of her beauty in the market. Everything a woman pays for her beauty is a result of the woman herself.
The result of being mesmerized by beauty.
No man has ever cared much about a woman's beauty. If women all over the world didn't wear makeup, there would also be some beautiful women. But this kind of pure natural beauty is obviously not as attractive as artificial beauty.
There is no man who must ask his wife to put on makeup when he goes shopping with his wife. He will not let his wife go out on the street without putting on put on. The reason why women put on put on put on when going out is because they want other women to see that she is a beauty.
, she is more beautiful than other women. Then she gets a kind of glory and satisfaction from the eyes of other women.
In fact, in the final analysis, women have no beauty at all, and it does not matter whether they are beautiful or not. Beauty is just something people imagine. There is no standard for beauty. When we call a woman a beauty, it is just an honorific for her.
It's like we call some scientific researchers scientists, actors as stars, writers as writers, and bosses as entrepreneurs. It's all the same. The country has never had a specific evaluation standard for beauties. Nor has it.
A clear measure of success for any scientist, artist, or writer-entrepreneur.
All these titles are a vague noun. What is a beauty? When a young woman starts wearing makeup, she becomes a beauty. What is a scientist? When you start doing scientific research, you become a scientist. What is a writer?
, when you randomly find a literary website on the Internet and register an account in three minutes. Then when you start writing, you are a writer. What is a star? When you become an actor, you are a star. What is a singer?
You are a singer when you start singing. What is an artist? When you scribble with a brush, you are an artist. What is a performance artist? When your behavior is abnormal, you are a performance artist.
And all these so-called beautiful women, scientists, writers, entrepreneurs, celebrities, singers, artists, and performance artists. Behind these people are all interests. When a woman likes to be a beauty, she can become a beauty. When a person likes to be a beauty, she can become a beauty.
When a person is a boss, he can become a boss. When a person likes to be a scientist, he can become a scientist. When a person wants to be an artist, he can become an artist.
Life is originally very simple, and ideals are within reach. It's just that you don't have a pair of eyes and can't see through the worldly things, so you regard the things that are easily available as unattainable things.
In fact, all things that are unattainable in the eyes of ordinary people, once you see through them, they are very ordinary things.
The content in one sketch is very interesting. It is said that he is a very rich boss. When he told others about his future ideal, he said that he only wanted to build a small house in the countryside, and then raise a few chickens.
A few ducks. Watching the sun rise and set every day, enjoying an unfettered and free pastoral life. Just like the life Tao Yuanming lived in those days. It is like a paradise.
In fact, isn’t this kind of ordinary life a true reflection of life in most mountain villages? Why would a big boss have such an idea? Isn’t this a kind of returning to nature at work!
Maybe the big boss was a poor mountain boy when he was young. He worked hard to long for the colorful world outside, and finally became a big boss and a rich man. But when he got tired of living the life of a rich man,
He will feel that the life of a rich person is by no means as beautiful as a poor man imagines.
In fact, what life really pursues is an interest and hobby. Once a person is rich, what can he enjoy? It is nothing more than his own interests and hobbies. And the things that many rich people enjoy are actually very common things. Basically
It's not something rare or hard to find in the world.
Anything that can enter the market and become a commodity must have a huge source of production. If there is no such a huge source of production, then it will not be able to survive in the market forever.
As long as there are things in this world that can be used as commodities, they are not very rare things. The reason why these things are valuable is because they are almost always wild. Just because they are wild, the quantity will increase.
There are relatively few. In this case, supply exceeds demand, which makes this product very valuable.
So what if you have a luxury car, it's just a car. So what if you have a mansion, it's just a house. So what if you can eat delicacies from the mountains and the sea. Maybe they are the common people living in the mountains.
I dug it randomly in the mountains, and then I got tired of eating it. If I didn't want to eat it, I took it out and sold it for some money.
What do you mean by the life of those with a history of corruption? I have embezzled a lot of ill-gotten gains. I live in fear every day. I don’t dare to spend the flowers, and I don’t know where to hide them. Just like the TV series "The People's"
Like the protagonist in "The Name", he kept hundreds of millions of cash at home and rode a broken bicycle to work every day. He became a pure miser. In the end, he committed a crime and was expelled from the party, expelled from public office and imprisoned. Do you think such a life is possible?
What do you mean? It’s true that you are a rich man, but have you lived the life of a rich man?
I have never understood why these officials take bribes. If you want to get rich so much, why do you want to be an official? Just resign and go into business and become a boss. As long as you are willing to work hard and endure hardship, rely on your own talents and abilities.
As well as your own interpersonal relationships, you can definitely achieve a career in the business world.
When the time comes, it will be so satisfying for you to spend the legal wealth you have earned. Why do you have to embark on the criminal path of corruption and bribery?
In fact, in the final analysis, this means that you have not seen through life. You have not seen through money. Your soul has been swallowed by money and you have completely become a slave to money. What is money? It is just a piece of paper! But you have to regard it as more precious than life.
If so, then you can only be a miser.
People's interests can change people's destiny. This change can be good or bad. We usually also say that knowledge changes destiny. Of course knowledge can change destiny. But without knowledge, as long as you are interested, you can change your destiny.
There is a very interesting story about knowledge changing destiny. It tells of a doctoral student who was thirty-six years old and had not yet married or had children. One day, he was wandering on the street and saw a fortune teller. So he wanted to give him a fortune teller.
Tell your own fortune.
Originally, this doctor didn't really believe in these things. He simply had nothing to do and just wanted to have fun.
So the doctor asked an old fortune teller to tell him his fortune and fortune. The old man looked at the doctor and said, "When you are twenty-eight, you can make a fortune. When you are thirty, you can make a fortune."
When you are 2 years old, you can give birth to a pair of twins, a boy and a girl.'
This was originally a very nice thing to say. If it had been anyone else, he would have been very happy and would have given the fortune teller some fortune-telling money. But when the doctor heard this, he became angry and said, 'Old man, what are you counting? Do you know how to do it?
I know how to tell fortunes. I'm thirty-six years old this year, and I don't even have a partner yet! But you said that I can make a fortune at the age of twenty-eight and have twins at the age of thirty. Are you talking nonsense?'
Hearing this, everyone will definitely think that this fortune teller is going to make a fool of himself today. He will definitely be severely punished by this doctor.
But the result was unexpected. The old man just smiled, patted the doctor on the shoulder, and said sincerely, 'Young man, this is how knowledge changes your destiny!'
As soon as these words came out, the doctor was immediately dumbfounded. He quickly gave the old man some money, turned around and left.
Although this story is unlikely to be true, it is very reasonable. Speaking of this story, we can immediately think of a story written by the ancient sage Zhuangzi in the book "Zhuangzi". This story is
It's called "Bian Lun Ji Lun".
I think there is no need to say more about the content of this story. This story has already been told in the previous chapters.
These two stories have one thing in common, which is to promote the idea that reading is useless. Although it seems reasonable, it makes no sense at all. If reading is really useless, then the 2,600 schools in our country
Universities can close their doors.
Therefore, the theory that reading is useless is a false proposition. We must not believe this statement. Reading is definitely useful. The key lies in how you apply it. Just like that doctor. If you get a doctorate, you will not have much potential.
If so, how can people who have only attended an ordinary undergraduate or junior college, or even not go to university, be able to get along!
Whether studying is useful depends on what books you read and what major you study. Whether you study a major that interests you. If you study a major that interests you, then you may be able to
Be successful in this major. If you are not studying a major that interests you, how can you be successful in this major?
Also, reading itself is a kind of interest. If you are not interested in reading at all, it is best not to read. If you force yourself to read, it will be a waste of time and money.