But in comparison, the second half of the sentence, "Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession." does not make any sense at all.
What's so scary about this man entering the wrong profession? Modern society is a free market economy. Very few people can stay in one job for the rest of their lives. Isn't it possible for each of us to change to many kinds of jobs?
There is nothing terrible about a man entering the wrong profession. From the perspective of market economy, this sentence is simply a false proposition. What is right or wrong about this 'business'? It's just a matter of whether you are willing to do it. If you are not willing
After doing this job, you can change to another job. This is not difficult at all.
Just like many college students nowadays, after being employed, they work for a while and then no longer want to do it. Then they can also switch to other companies or other industries. This is not difficult at all, although there are some
Troublesome. But compared to a woman getting married and divorced, it is nothing at all.
If you take this sentence as the truth, it can only be said that this kind of person has absolutely no ability to decide his own destiny. When you are placed in an inappropriate position by your family, or a position that you don't like, then there is nothing you can do about it.
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Perhaps it can be said that a woman has absolutely no autonomy in marriage. She completely listens to her parents to let her marry a certain person. Then there is no other way, and then there is no more. This is entirely your own problem. It is not a problem of the objective environment.
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In modern society, it makes no sense for men to be afraid of getting into the wrong profession. It makes no sense for women to be afraid of marrying the wrong man. It is normal to get divorced and remarry if you marry the wrong man. Quite a few years ago, Li Qingzhao, a famous poet in the Song Dynasty,
No one dares to get married again, let alone a modern woman. If you want to, just do it, if you don’t want to, just do it. This is also a precious quality of life.
Of course, we would say that getting married and divorced is a very troublesome thing. Therefore, many of us are willing to live like this for the rest of our lives. This is a matter of one's own ability. It does not mean that a woman is afraid of marrying the wrong man.
"Men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession." What's the reason?
If this sentence can be connected with truth, then it must be connected with people's interests. The meaning of this sentence should be that men are afraid of finding a job they don't like, and women are afraid of finding a job they don't like.
I found a man I don't like. Because of this, this sentence seems more reasonable.
Therefore, this interest is very important. Every one of us college students must know what they really like when they go to college. They must choose a major that they really like, and then find a major after graduation.
Work that matches your major.
In fact, when we choose a major, we should not just think about popular majors. We must think about what kind of majors we like.
Only by finding a major that you like can you make a career in this industry. If you find a job that you don't like, it will be difficult to achieve anything in this industry.
We must know the importance of interest in our lives. Interest is the best teacher. This is what Einstein, the greatest scientist in human history, said. This sentence can be said to be a wise saying.
We all know that Einstein's initial job was not scientific research. After graduating from college, he did not have the opportunity to stay in school and become a university teacher. He also did not have the opportunity to engage in professional scientific research in any national scientific research institution.
Einstein's great achievements only started from a small hobby. While working to support his family, he used his spare time to conduct scientific research. It was under such circumstances that he founded
The great "Opposite Wheel" is famous all over the world, and its name will be immortalized in history.
There is also Marie Curie, the greatest female scientist in human history. She is not a professional engaged in scientific research. She is just a housewife who takes care of her children while doing research on the scientific work she likes.
But it was such a moment that she might have been just an ordinary housewife all her life. She finally stood at the pinnacle of science. She was originally the assistant of her husband Curie. But in the end she surpassed her husband and became famous in history.
Madame Curie.
It can be said that the life experiences of Einstein and Madame Curie are exactly the same. The things that made their glorious lives the same are the same. That is interest. It was interest that made them successful. It allowed them to step out of mediocrity and enter the temple of science.
.Became a scientific saint that could not be surpassed by future generations.
Therefore, interest is very important. It is important enough to give birth to great scientists such as Einstein and Marie Curie. Even the father of hybrid rice in our country, Yuan Longping, is not the same. From an ordinary agricultural school teacher to solving problems
The father of hybrid rice who has solved the problem of feeding hundreds of millions of people. Isn’t this all because he loves to study rice, the most common crop!
There is no distinction between high and low professions. No matter what kind of job you are engaged in, as long as it is a job that you really like, it is a good job. As long as you are willing to dedicate your life's ability to this kind of work, this is very worthy of recognition.
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What we usually call scientists, artists, writers, etc. These titles are a hobby, not a job. As long as you have this hobby, you can do such things at any time. It does not mean that you are looking for a job.
For such a job, there is no unit in the world that recruits scientists, no company that recruits artists, and no company that recruits star singers.
All real jobs are very ordinary. Even some decent professions are like this. Being a teacher can be considered a decent profession! But if you ask a primary school teacher to compare with a university teacher, or with a university professor
How can this be compared?
When we usually talk about scientists, artists and writers, we often combine these words with a person's ideal. We cannot say that we want to find a job as a scientist, but we can say that we want to realize the ideal of being a scientist. We don't
We can say that we want to find a job as an artist. But we can say that we want to realize the ideal of being an artist. We cannot say that we want to find a job as a writer. But we can say that I want to realize the ideal of being a writer.
When we college students are employed, we must understand what we are interested in and what abilities we have. When we go to work in the society, although we need academic qualifications, academic qualifications are only a reference. What is more important is ability. Because anyone in society has
It is impossible for a company to say, I only need to look at your academic qualifications. As long as you have a high academic qualifications, I don’t need to interview you, and you can come to work.
Obviously this is not the case. If this is the case, then it must meet a condition that is unlikely to be encountered. In other words, when you apply for this position, there is no one competing with you at all, and you are the only one applying for this position. Then
Of course you can go directly to work in this company. No interview is required at all.
But in reality, this situation is unlikely to happen. Even for some relatively unpopular majors, there will be competition when you apply.
Therefore, when we apply for employment in the society, what kind of academic qualifications you have is not important. What is important is what kind of abilities you have. What kind of abilities you have, then determines what kind of position you have.
The employment problem of college students can be said to be a commonplace issue, but it is also a problem that has always been difficult to solve.
When dealing with this problem, we cannot just look at some objective reasons. If we look at objective reasons, the employment problem of college students will never be solved. Because everyone wants to have a decent job with high income. But such a job
There are so few. Which company is willing to support some people with high technology but no achievements?
The ideology of market economy has long entered the cells of each of us. No boss will support his employees in vain. Every employee under the boss needs to make money through their own labor.
It goes without saying about physical labor. How much hard work you put in is how much money you can earn. Basically all enterprises across the country implement piece-rate wages. How much work you can do is how much money you can earn.
Even some high-tech companies are like this. They can't support you in vain. Only if you make achievements will they give you a high salary. If you can't make achievements, then they will give you a little basic salary.
Just two living expenses.
In fact, the employment problem of college students is a matter of changing ideological concepts. If you still think that you are a college student, you are great, you feel that you are superior to others, and you are unwilling to lower your profile and engage in some harder and lower-paying jobs. Then you
You have to stay at home and grow old.
There is a strange phenomenon in our society. On the one hand, companies are posting recruitment advertisements all day long. But on the other hand, many people cannot find jobs. Especially some college students, they are unemployed as soon as they graduate, and then become
burden on society.
This is a question of ideology. We have been reforming and opening up for 40 years. Now the educational level of our country is very high. The cultural quality of all people in our country has also improved a lot compared with the last century.
In the last century, it was a great thing for a family to have a college student. But now! The current situation can be said to be earth-shaking, completely different from before. In some large and medium-sized cities now, it can be said that young people are almost
All of them can go to college and become college students.
Even in some remote rural areas, a considerable number of young people can go to college and become college students.
In the last century, talking about college students was still a rarity. Today’s college students are like cabbages in the vegetable market, not worth mentioning at all. As long as they are young people, at least half of them are already college students.
Diploma.
Of course, the university diploma and the college diploma are also different. The college students and the college students are also the same. The college students are also different from each other.
In the last century, being able to attend a junior college was considered a real college student. Today's junior college students are really no different from ordinary high school students.
In a sense, only undergraduates can now be considered college students in the true sense. And college students are not college students at all. In this case, if in modern society, you are just a college graduate, you still feel
If you are a real college student and still want to work in an office and are unwilling to work in a workshop, then you may have to sit at home and be unemployed.
Now our entire society is a vicious circle of infinite competition. As long as you are in this society, as long as you are in this circle, you must make yourself strong. Then you can trample others under your feet, so that you can have things that others cannot have.
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Everyone's success is the result of countless people's failures. The smile of every successful person is exchanged for the tears of countless losers. The ancients said, 'One general's success will cause thousands of bones to wither.' This sentence is used in modern times.
In social competition, it is not an exaggeration at all. Behind the success of that star, there are countless young people who have the same dream of stardom as him. He stepped on the 'corpse' of others and stood as a star.
under the spotlight.
Success is never easy. It is also a very cruel thing. The success of any one person is the result of the failure of countless people.
Each of us wants to succeed. But success is not easy. But the key to making us as successful as possible is whether we can do the work we like.
We can only succeed if we engage in a job that we like. If we engage in a job that we don't like, the possibility of success is not very high.
In short, each of us lives in this society. If we want to succeed, we must do things we like. Of course, we may do some things we don’t like at first because of life. But if you can’t do it,
When you like something, please don't forget your dream.
Dreams have never been something only children have. Dreams have always been something only after adulthood. Many of us always say that so-and-so has wanted to be a scientist, artist, writer or something like that since he was a child.
In fact, this is completely the wishful thinking of adults. It is impossible for a primary school student to have any real dreams. Dreams are definitely thoughts that should only be had after adulthood.
So, we are young people who are about to go to college or are already college students. From now on, we must quickly think about what our true hobbies are.