Japanese people pay attention to implicitness and euphemism in expression, and the higher the status of the person, the more so.
So even after sitting down, Han Changzi kept focusing on desserts and coffee. By the way, he also gave Ning Weimin some knowledge about the history of Shiseido Dessert Shop.
Of course, Ning Weimin could only listen obediently, occasionally expressing admiration and surprise.
He was sober and knew that this was not the time for him to use his words or show his cleverness.
Just like that, I waited until the circle that I had to go around was over, and I had enough talk about the scene.
After finishing the delicious dessert, the temperature of the Irish coffee also dropped to the point where it exudes just the right charming aroma of wine.
Only then did the conversation between them begin to touch on the topic.
Han Changzi took the initiative to break the chat mode, "Frankly speaking, it was very sudden when I received your call. I was really shocked. What did you think? Why did you suddenly think of meeting me privately at this time?"
Ning Weimin first expressed his apology and bowed.
"I'm sorry for causing you trouble. Mainly because I accidentally learned not long ago that my relationship with Qingzi has caused great trouble to your family, so I thought of apologizing to you in person and communicating with you."
Then he played the thoughtful and considerate emotional card.
"I heard that Qingzi's father was very angry about this incident. In fact, Qingzi herself also regretted it. When she was filming in China, she was very unhappy because she was thinking about this incident. Considering that the Chinese New Year is coming soon.
, Qingzi will also go home. So in order to avoid any accidents that ruin the reunion atmosphere of your family during the New Year meeting, I want to meet you before the New Year. There is no doubt that I have
Responsibility, but I also sincerely hope that your family can be in harmony and have a happy New Year. I have always heard from Keiko that you are a reasonable, gentle and kind mother. Therefore, in addition to wanting to apologize to you in person and explain some misunderstandings,
At the same time, I also want to ask for your opinion on how to properly handle this matter. What I hope is that in the end, I can make Qingzi happy without living up to your and uncle's expectations."
These words are quite beautiful.
Not only does he always think about Matsumoto Keiko's parents and family, but he also calmly and frequently gives top hats to his future mother-in-law.
Inadvertently, Han Changzi drank a few mouthfuls of sweet rice soup, and his mood improved a little.
"Don't be nervous, your ideas are also very good. It cannot be said that all the responsibility for this matter lies with you. We are not the kind of shallow and ignorant parents, let alone unreasonable parents. Even Qingzi's father has a very bad temper.
Big, but it is all for the sake of my daughter. In fact, the reason why your relationship is so angry is mainly because Qingzi is too strict. She has not revealed anything about your relationship. If it were not for the media exposure, this would
We are still kept in the dark about this matter. Think about it, the biological parents were the last to know about their daughter’s relationship, and they had to go through repeated interrogations to get some information out of their daughter’s mouth. This is unjustifiable, right? And Qing
She is an only child and her father has high expectations for her and is also very picky about her marriage..."
"It's my responsibility to be sorry. Because as Qingzi said to the media, I am an outsider. Qingzi only kept it so strictly confidential to protect my privacy and prevent my life from being interfered with by her.
It’s my fault that I took it for granted so that our relationship would not be disturbed by the outside world, which put the kind-hearted Qingzi under inexplicable pressure. Don’t blame her, just blame me. I was too selfish and couldn’t do more for her.
consider."
He did not evade responsibility, nor did he blindly obey. He followed Han Changzi to say Qingzi's fault.
Ning Weimin took over everything and shouldered everything on his own shoulders.
For this reason, although she knew that the person in front of her was very different from what she and her husband expected, and some problems might not be solved at all, Han Changzi could not help but develop a liking for Ning Weimin, and the more he looked at her, the more he liked him.
Unintentionally, she began to mention sensitive issues.
"Amin, it seems that you are much younger than Qingzi, right? How old are you two?"
Ning Weimin was refreshed and knew that the drama was coming.
But he was extremely smart, but he did not follow these words and tell the truth about his age.
Because he knows that it doesn't actually matter how old they are.
His future mother-in-law was just worried about the stability of their relationship and that their relationship would be a temporary passion.
"There is a few years age difference between Qingzi and I, but we get along very harmoniously, and we have the same views on many things. This is not an exaggeration, our tacit understanding is really not an ordinary level, but the kind of understanding that is unique to you.
recognition. For me personally, being able to meet Qingzi is the luckiest thing that happened to me. With her by my side, I feel an unprecedented sense of happiness and security..."
"A sense of security?" Han Changzi was confused by this special word.
"Yes, I am an orphan. I am not afraid of your jokes. In the past, my understanding of life was mostly rigid and indifferent. Not only was I lonely, I was always full of anxiety and restlessness, and my mood was somewhat unstable. Thanks to Qingzi for bringing me
Her gentleness and warmth, it was her care and concern for me that gave me a gentle experience and a clearer understanding of the beauty of life. The person has become more fulfilling. And she is very talented, not only
In terms of acting, she helped me a lot. So no matter what other people think of me and her, whether they doubt our relationship or whether there is an age gap between us. Anyway, for me, Qingzi is irreplaceable, and she is the only one I am willing to do.
The person I want to spend my whole life with. If she hadn't appeared, I would never have thought of getting married. But it's different now. I can't live without her, so I need to beg for your permission..."
Ning Weimin did not shy away from exposing his shortcomings.
Although in Han Changzi's view, words such as "it must be you" are somewhat idealistic and extreme and should not be taken seriously.\
She was even shocked to learn that he was an orphan, and she couldn't help but guess that his affection for his daughter probably stemmed from the lack of maternal love.
But having said that, this sincerity can be felt in real life.
And even though the age issue cannot be avoided, if what Ning Weimin said is true, then regardless of whether it is right or wrong, such an age difference will have a good effect on marriage.
"It's a great idea to start a family and start a business! But will there be any difficulties in it?"
Some problems really make it difficult for people to make a judgment for a while, so they simply don’t think about them. Han Changzi focused on other aspects.
"It is not easy for young people nowadays to start a family in Tokyo, not to mention you are still a foreigner. It is not easy to stay in Tokyo. It must be a bit difficult, right? So what are your plans for your future?
"
This was a very clever question and nothing embarrassing.
But the subtext is actually asking whether Ning Weimin is a soft-boiled man.
This is not surprising at all. The current national power comparison between Japan and the Republic is too disparate.
As Ning Weimin, he is one of the very few lucky people to come to Tokyo.
According to common sense, there are no good job opportunities.
However, he seems to be living quite well. If it weren't for Matsumoto Keiko, how could he be like living in a honey jar?
No matter who you think about it, you will think so.
So as a mother, as the person who knows her daughter's temperament best, Chang Zi would naturally worry that Ning Weimin would become a parasite that sucks her daughter's blood.
Especially since he had just blatantly declared that he could no longer live without Qingzi.
If these words were not based on feelings but were mixed with economic factors, it would be too disgusting. It is an absolute gap marriage.
However, what is unexpected is that economics is exactly Ning Weimin's strong point.
"There is no problem at all in this aspect. If I want to, it is more than enough to settle down in Tokyo and live a stable life. It is something that can be done at any time. Even if Keiko stops acting or working in the future, I will not
Let her worry about finances."
Ning Weimin's words sounded a bit loud to Han Changzi.
In disbelief, she exclaimed in surprise, "What? What did you say?"
There were many other customers in the restaurant and there were waiters around, so it would be too philistine to discuss this issue in detail.
So seeing that someone was paying attention, Ning Weimin decided to reveal only the tip of the iceberg of his wealth, vaguely revealing it to Han Changzi.
"To tell you the truth, my income is not lower than Keiko's, and I already have real estate that can collect rent in Tokyo. There are two properties not far from here. They are in 2-chome and 5-chome. One is a restaurant and the other is
The total amount of apartments and dormitories is about 300 square meters..."
"You...how long have you been in Tokyo?"
Han Changzi regained his composure with great difficulty, but he still felt strange.
If nothing else, the price of land in Tokyo has risen so much nowadays, especially in areas like Ginza.
Each square meter costs tens of millions of yen!
Ning Weimin's words are equivalent to saying that he has a net worth of at least tens of billions of yen.
Tens of billions of yen!
Moreover, it is a land asset that can be liquidated at any time!
This is something more reliable than any company, enterprise, or factory.
As a foreigner, God knows how he did it?
Of course Ning Weimin could understand Chang Zi's feelings and continued to explain.
"I am employed by Pierre Cardon Company and came to Tokyo in the middle of last year. The reason why I came here is to promote the company's trolley suitcases and to open branches of high-end Chinese restaurants invested by the company and several units in China. So.
My annual income is relatively high, and I can get extra dividends. In addition, I also have some savings, about 1.1 billion yen. After I came to Tokyo, I happened to buy real estate before land prices soared. Originally, I wanted to
It operates a restaurant and provides dormitories for employees. They expect to be able to collect some stable rent and earn extra money for themselves. Unexpectedly, this decision is like winning the lottery. In just over a year, the price of these land has actually increased tenfold.
Several times..."
“It’s really good.”
Hearing this, Han Changzi admired sincerely and was extremely happy.
In fact, it's not that she is greedy for money, the main thing is that the contrast is too great.
Originally, she was worried that her daughter would find a parasite that looked like an embroidered pillow. From now on, Qingzi might be parasitized and suck blood from her husband.
Ke Shu knew that this young man was not only good-looking and lovable, but he was also a wealthy man.
Although it may be due to luck, he is so young, has no parental support, and is a Chinese from the third world. He has just arrived in Japan from China and has a huge savings. This is already a problem.
If others don't tell me, my husband has been working hard for so long, and even the company and the family's house probably only cost 2 billion yen.
My daughter has been famous for so long, and the money she earns is probably less than one billion yen.
God knows how this young man gained such a huge personal wealth purely from scratch in an economically backward country, a country that opposes capitalism...
Thinking about it carefully, she was not particularly concerned about how much money Ning Weimin was currently earning. Instead, she was particularly curious about his life experience and eager to know Ning Weimin's personal situation in the Republic before coming to Japan.
So he turned to ask, "When you were in China, which university did you graduate from? What major did you major in?"
Unexpectedly, Ning Weimin gave a slightly devilish smile and gave an answer that she could never imagine.
"I didn't go to college. I didn't even finish high school..."
"This...how is this possible?"
"You don't know the situation over there, but that's the fact. Our college students there are as precious as national treasures. Due to limited higher education resources, not one person in a thousand people can come out with such a fatherless and motherless person.
It’s too difficult to take this path…”
Next, Ning Weimin began to report the resume of the original owner and explain the special circumstances in the country.
Anyway, he couldn't say that he drank too much and got smoked by gas, so he could only use Ning Weimin's painful past as a reason.
While his future mother-in-law listened attentively, she couldn't help but reveal more emotional changes in her facial expressions.
Sometimes he was full of sympathy, sometimes full of surprise, sometimes he felt sad as if he was feeling the same, and sometimes he was happy that his situation had improved.
"You are saying that your situation began to improve after meeting Mr. Picardon himself."
"Yes, my French boss didn't care about my academic qualifications. He just saw that I had potential and gave me an exceptional employment opportunity. And Ms. Song, the general manager of our company, gave me a platform to realize my potential. Without their support
and cultivation. I wouldn’t be where I am today, let alone come to Japan.”
"If you don't have a higher education, won't you find it difficult at work? How can you make up for the gap with your colleagues? How can you deal with interpersonal relationships?"
"These are not difficult. The ability to deal with people and professional knowledge cannot be learned in school. Fortunately, I have a knowledgeable old man next to me to teach me. As for the knowledge of clothing and foreign languages, I can't learn it in school."
I learned it at work. Now I can master Japanese and English quantitatively. As for French, I can also speak a few sentences in daily life. It is enough for work needs. As for the gap between me and my colleagues, thanks to my boss who knows people and uses them well, I have always
They all run their own business alone and have never been under any control. The interpersonal relationships are even simpler. They usually don’t say harsh words and treat others gently, but they dare to say tough words and do tough things at critical moments.”
Ning Weimin smiled and said calmly, "Although I like to win the trust, support and help of most people when I work, if necessary, I will stick to my own views and never compromise." ()