"Your ideas are very mature. It's even more unbelievable to achieve such career achievements at such a young age. It's really difficult for you. You can achieve this level by yourself."
Han Changzi was quite satisfied with Ning Weimin's resume and answers. After observing it now, even she had to admit that Ning Weimin was really good, and he was a perfect example of a foreign rich man.
There is actually nothing wrong with the choice of daughter. I am afraid that any Japanese girl would not be able to resist such a handsome and profitable young man.
Of course, this man is indeed a bit too young, and there is a certain age gap between him and his daughter.
But if you think about it carefully, this difference is actually nothing.
There has been a proverb in Japan since ancient times, "If you have a wife who is older than you, even if you wear golden sandals, you have to look for her.", "A sister's wife is a good medicine for the family", "With a sister's wife, you can build a warehouse at home."
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In the Edo period, it was a traditional custom for wealthy and prestigious Japanese families to marry their sons to a woman who was the same as their sister. It was not a big deal if they were more than ten years older.
Because the wife is older than the husband and has more life experience than the husband, she can provide her husband with many good suggestions on his work and life based on her own experiences of success and failure.
It can be proved from history that for many men who are focused on their careers or have an Oedipus complex, sister wives are simply a good medicine.
On the other hand, this kind of marriage between a big woman and a small man is also beneficial to the woman.
As a weak woman, except when in love, she will not feel uneasy or afraid of boyfriends who are younger than her.
Moreover, husbands who are younger than themselves often show childlike weakness and cuteness, and can also bring out the maternal side of their wives.
In this way, not only will the wife be more willing to take good care of her husband, but she will also pay more attention to dressing up and taking care of herself, which will contribute to the harmony of the marriage.
In the final analysis, as long as the two people don't mind the marriage and don't feel the age difference, this is not an obstacle at all.
Secondly, this person not only has a serious job, but also has a very high income and very rich assets.
And judging from his speech and behavior, he is also very pragmatic, very down-to-earth, very steady, and very low-key.
He is not the kind of person who brags about himself, likes to show off, and is ambitious.
Not the kind of writer who might commit suicide, the confusing artist, or the insane musician.
The point is not that he can bring his daughter a prosperous and comfortable life, but at least it can prove that he is not an emotional liar, a pretty boy who plans to eat soft rice, or a bastard like a local hooligan.
Although it is a pity not to have a high degree of education.
But this man is very smart and has a high IQ, there is no doubt about it.
How many ordinary people can learn and work at work like him and master two foreign languages?
Who else can rise through the ranks like him, start from scratch, and earn such a rich family fortune at such a young age.
Although I am an orphan and come from a poor family, I am afraid it would be a bit shameful to tell people about it.
But having said that, to be valued by a famous French fashion designer, and to be entrusted with important tasks after being specially hired, it is enough to show that he is a talented and outstanding young man.
If such a person had been born into a wealthy family, I am afraid that he would have achieved an even more amazing longevity and would have become a well-known genius long ago.
Therefore, such a life experience can make people feel more sympathetic and compassionate.
In addition, having no parents or relatives means that family relationships are simple. This young man also needs support and assistance when he is alone in Japan.
This is not only a good thing for Keiko to lighten his burden. When his daughter marries him, he only needs to worry about housework, and there won't be many worries in life. There may also be a possibility of attracting a new wife.
At the very least, it is certain that after marriage, the daughter will still visit her parents' family as usual, and the couple will not lose sight of their daughter after she gets married.
The daughter who can stay with him is his. For them who only have one daughter, this is enough to offset the gap in family status.
Finally, this person speaks clearly and logically, has his own unique views on things, has the ability to think for himself, does not act impulsively, and is very likable.
This means that he not only has a high IQ, but also a high emotional intelligence.
People with high IQs can make themselves comfortable.
People with high emotional intelligence can make people around them feel comfortable.
It is very painful to live with idiots, and this is the most important thing!
Now Han Changzi and Ning Weimin feel very comfortable sitting together and talking.
Although they didn't know each other well and were still strangers, Ning Weimin had already made her happy and happy.
This kind of person is rare and it would be a pity to miss him.
In short, for Han Changzi, although he met Ning Weimin today, he found that he was different from what he had imagined in many aspects.
But because I saw the person my daughter fell in love with, I also saw the obvious advantages in him.
It seems that even issues that were initially considered non-negotiable have become grudgingly acceptable.
If my daughter takes it upon herself to find something that is out of place, then she, as a mother, will probably hang herself and will definitely oppose it to the end.
But the Ning Weimin in front of her was ten times better than she expected, which made her feel greatly relieved and even felt quite relieved.
Han Changzi, who was full of thoughts, casually exchanged a few words with Ning Weimin, and suddenly noticed that the ashtray on the table was empty.
Suddenly he realized that Ning Weimin might have been wronging him.
Her tone became gentler and she took the initiative to say, "Do you want to smoke? If you want, just smoke. Don't pay attention to me. It's okay."
However, Ning Weimin said, "No, thank you for your kindness. I have successfully quit smoking. If you want to start a family, you must always consider your family."
"You don't have to always use honorifics, just be more casual."
Han Changzi sighed quietly, but he unexpectedly discovered Ning Weimin's merits again.
Compared with her husband who smoked whenever he wanted and drank whenever he wanted, smoking with his left hand and drinking with his right hand, she now really envied her daughter's blessing.
I estimate that if she had a son like Ning Weimin, she would probably object to him marrying a girl like Qingzi.
But who made Qingzi her biological daughter?
It is completely acceptable to transfer her daughter to someone like Ning Weimin.
"I'm sorry that I asked you so many questions when we first met. I hope you can understand my painstaking efforts as a mother."
"You are too polite, and your inquiry is completely reasonable. As a mother, you have to help your daughter to take care of things. No matter how strict you are, it is understandable. Everyone can understand this kind of love for your daughter. What's more, Miss Keiko is also very good...
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"Excellent? This is also one of the things I'm worried about. You two have known each other for such a short time, and what I'm most worried about is that you don't understand each other well enough. From the perspective of the entertainment industry, she is excellent enough, absolutely.
She relies on her own hard work, without any help from her family. But from another perspective...she is also an uneasy child, which is really worrying."
"You are really too modest. In my eyes, Qingzi is a very considerate, gentle and attentive person. He is organized and has ideas. He always takes care of others..."
Ning Weimin wanted to help Matsumoto Keiko even if he was a friend, but he really didn't expect that Keiko, as a daughter, would be so bad in the eyes of her parents.
Han Changzi shook his head helplessly, "Has an idea? She just has too many ideas. She has not wanted to follow the path arranged by her parents since she was a child, which is why her relationship with her father has been so tense. I'm serious, Qingzi's
In fact, there is a very stubborn side in his temperament. He will never compromise on something he is sure about. Even if he knows that he is wrong, he will insist on his own way. For a man, this kind of character seems too tough, and for a woman, it is even more so.
It's not pleasant. I'm worried that you might quarrel in the future..."
Ning Weimin also deeply agrees with what Qingzi's mother said.
Outside of acting, this Songzhu elder sister really has a great personality.
Just like how he behaved when he announced his fiancé to the media.
Such scandals, in the hypocritical Japanese society, can often put an artist's career in jeopardy if not well controlled.
Therefore, artists often like to be secretive and speak tactfully.
But when Keiko Matsumoto held a press conference, she announced in public that she faced the media calmly and was not afraid at all.
I have the energy to love whoever I want, and I have the final say in my life. This is the first sister of Songzhu!
But to be honest, this aspect of Keiko made him admire him very much. There were not many Japanese women with such soft yet strong tempers.
He persuaded her again, "Qingzi is indeed a perseverant person, but this is not necessarily a bad thing, it is just a characteristic of her character. In fact, she is already very good. I know everything about her. At least to me, Qingzi
She is straightforward enough. Besides, no one is perfect, and no one is perfect. I never expected her to be a perfect person. Is there any couple in the world who doesn’t quarrel? It’s not a big deal, you don’t need to worry too much. If you really quarrel, then
I admit my mistake and apologize. I am not Japanese, and I don’t think it is a loss of face for a man to apologize to his wife. And I also believe that there is no need to be serious between husband and wife. They must distinguish between right and wrong. Keiko’s temper is coquettish.
That’s fine.”
Han Changzi was criticizing his daughter's shortcomings, but he was very happy to hear Ning Weimin defending his daughter.
Not for anything else, just because life depends on the bottom line.
When in love, both parties rely on their merits to attract each other.
But after marriage, it doesn't matter how many advantages there are for the other party to appreciate.
Only when both parties can accept each other's shortcomings can life truly go on.
She couldn't help but smile again and said, "I'm very happy that you like Qingzi. I'm relieved that you can be so generous and accommodating to her."
Ning Weimin felt deeply inspired by this, feeling that he had passed this test!
This is very important. He had already considered it before he came.
Even if the relationship with Matsumoto Keiko's mother breaks down, he will not give up easily and will think about it again at worst.
Now that I can get the approval of my mother-in-law-to-be, this is a great thing after all!
Not to mention that there was no need to abduct Matsumoto Keiko and elope. Next, how to pass the test of prospective father-in-law and have allies.
Ning Waimin quickly said a few words of modesty.
As expected, Han Changzi, a mother, has begun to fully assume the role of mother-in-law, and can't wait to care about further issues.
"Have you made any joint plans for the future? Have you discussed any related matters?"
"A common plan?"
Ning Weimin didn't react for a moment, and then he realized what his mother-in-law was concerned about.
"Are you asking about marriage? I really want to take the next step, and I hope to start taking action as soon as possible. But it's obviously too early to say this now. I have to find a way to get Qingzi's father's permission first.
It only takes recognition..."
Han Changzi was slightly startled and looked at Ning Weimin.
It was then that she seemed to realize that she was too involved and too impatient, and she actually forgot that there was another difficulty that made them both worried.
But at this time, because of her emotional inclination and her eagerness for her daughter to get married, she had decided to give her full support.
Then he nodded lightly as if he had made up his mind, "You are a very outstanding young man. I basically agree with you and Qingzi's matter. But because Qingzi's father is very stubborn, we really can't rush this matter. Regarding your matters,
I will blow the wind slowly and try it out for you in a few days. If you have any good ideas, you might as well come up with them. Of course I hope Qingzi can be happy. As long as I can help you with your affairs, you can
Just ask..."
Finally, I got my wish and got Han Changzi's clear personal promise.
Ning Weimin was absolutely elated after he had found his future mother-in-law.
So he was not polite and said, "Then first tell me what Qingzi's father likes and what he hates. I also want to know what kind of person Qingzi's father ideally wants Qingzi to marry.
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I immediately took out a small notebook from my pocket and started taking notes.
Ning Weimin would never believe that there was someone in this world who knew her husband better than the man in front of her.
This information is so precious!
In this way, Han Changzi spent more than half an hour introducing Qingzi's father's temperament and preferences in detail, so that Ning Weimin could easily follow his wishes. After finishing speaking, he did not forget to mention some things about Qingzi's childhood.
matter.
This afternoon tea lasted nearly three hours, and the guests and hosts enjoyed themselves happily.
At least Ning Weimin is very satisfied. After all, in addition to knowing what Matsumoto Keiko's father likes to drink, what he smokes, and what he eats, he also knows a lot of the embarrassing things Matsumoto Keiko did when he was a child.
He also learned what the Japanese thought about marrying their daughters to foreigners.
So I feel that this future mother-in-law is really nice, she treats others very kindly, and she also values herself very much.
Even when leaving Shiseido, Ning Weimin did not say goodbye, but invited Han Changzi to walk two streets to visit his Tan Gong Restaurant.
Mainly because it was already very late, and he was worried that his mother-in-law would have to worry about dinner when she got home.
So I was very considerate and wanted to pack some vegetables for my mother-in-law to take away.
But she was rejected by Han Changzi. She hoped to rush home as soon as possible before her husband got off work to avoid his suspicion.
This time I came mainly because I was worried and wanted to see what kind of person Ning Weimin was. Now I am basically relieved and want to go back quickly. Nothing else matters.
Just like that, the two of them said goodbye at the entrance of Shiseido.
However, Ning Weimin still took out a few gifts he brought with him as gifts - tea from the capital and several silk scarves produced by Pierre Cardin.
Needless to say, this made the mother-in-law more and more happy. The more the mother-in-law looked at her son-in-law, the more she liked him.
Han Changzi was indeed relieved, after all, he watched his actions, heard his words, and observed his appearance.
Ning Weimin looks very good, smart, capable, mature and stable, with very strong communication skills. His daughter will not have many worries in life if she marries him.
Especially when he heard about his daughter's past, his eyes were particularly bright. It was obvious that he was coveting Qingzi, not anything else. This was enough to qualify him to marry her daughter.
Han Changzi sincerely hoped that his daughter would find a good home. He held Ning Weimin's hand and said sincerely, "Amin, Qingzi will leave it to you!"
Ning Weimin also replied seriously, "This is my honor!" ()