Starting from tomorrow until the 5th, there will be single updates. I have to take my children out to play and save manuscripts.
During the summer vacation, I will continue to take my children out to play and travel by car, spending more time. I promised my child that I will take him on a self-driving tour every summer vacation. I will try to slowly travel all over China. After reading thousands of books, I will also travel thousands of miles.
So I still have to save manuscripts for this... I get a headache just thinking about it, and I feel like I have dug a hole for myself. I will definitely avoid summer vacation when writing new books in the future, because I really don’t have time to run around during the new book period.
I heard a song called "Return to the Mountain" before, and there was a line in it that really touched me:
"Middle age is hard and there are many strange debts to repay."
This book is actually written with a lot of feeling and passion, but I still have to ask for leave many times. I’m really sorry. As I’m almost forty years old, it’s really hard for me to explode like before. There are subjective reasons here, whether it’s
Both physically and mentally, they are not as good as before.
There are also objectively the various bonds of being a father, a husband, and a son. When I was a child, the holidays were the happiest times for me, because I didn’t have to worry about anything, I had delicious food, fun things, and new clothes. I always felt that these were the natural things of the festival.
Nowadays, celebrating holidays has become a big worry for me. I have to make holiday arrangements in advance. If I want to go out for fun, I have to make plans, book hotels, and arrange itineraries...
On the day of the festival, I got up early, yawned all day, and drove out. The child sat in the back and continued to sleep. When I woke up, I arrived at the destination as soon as I opened my eyes. Maybe I would have the same idea as I did when I was a child. Traveling is so fun.
, of course it’s fun, traveling should be fun and happy.
But in fact, what we took for granted when we were young is just because someone did all the work behind it, and that is our parents.
But these things were completely unimaginable to me when I was a child, until I became someone else's parent.
There are many parental characters in this book, and I was very touched by almost every one of them when I was writing it.
A few days ago, I met a junior high school classmate I hadn’t seen for many years. The classmate asked me how I experience life when I write at home all day long.
I said that I make firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea with my wife and children every day. I am living in it. Where else do I need to experience it?
In this book, you can often see readers saying that a certain place is written with great details and life...
Of course, I was young and ignorant before, but now I am taking my life very seriously.
I don’t smoke, but my father-in-law smokes. He has children at home, and he turns on the range hood and smokes in the kitchen. For him, standing in the kitchen with a mobile phone, turning on the range hood, smoking and scrolling on the phone, maybe
His leisure time, a rare and beautiful moment.
There is also the conflict of ideas between children and parents. When I was a child, I sat on the child's side, but after I had children, I realized the parents' thoughts and understood a lot of things. In fact, it is not who is right or wrong.
This change in mentality naturally made me write it into the book, such as the conflict between Hu Lai and his father Hu Lixin.
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It’s been a long time since I’ve written a single chapter. During the May Day holiday, I felt inspired to write a single chapter and have a casual chat with everyone.
As for the performance of this book, it seems that it is going up so far. Although the speed is very slow, the average subscription is indeed moving towards the 10,000 mark little by little. Thanks to everyone's love on the monthly ticket list, in my opinion
The ranking is pretty good despite not being very explosive.
I just hope that I can finish this book with high quality and give myself a long vacation. Let my brain have a good rest. After all, I lie in bed every day before going to bed thinking about what to write next and how to write it. Every day I wake up.
I lie in bed thinking about what to write next and how to write it. Living like this every day is quite hard...
Of course, that will all happen a long time ago, and I currently expect that it will take at least another year to write this book.
So for me right now this is it:
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Finally, although I know that this is a single update, since I have already written a single chapter, I still shamelessly ask everyone for monthly tickets. During the double monthly ticket period, thank you everyone!