[062] The attribute of falling in love
From one place to another, and from another to the next, I was sad all the way, sad for thousands of miles, and finally I decided to find a reason to convince myself.
For example, I don't love Eve.
If I don’t love her, then all the pain will not be true.
If I treat her as a passerby in my life, I will feel much better.
The reason why such an idea arose is that on the road of sadness for thousands of miles, I not only remember Eve, but also hopelessly remembered Duoduo, and the girl who once made me die unforgettable and dead.
With this vivid example, I don't understand if I have really loved Eve, because I know very well that Eve and I have not yet reached the point of death.
A few days later, I finally found a way to convince myself successfully.
Such persuasion may be a kind of self-hypnosis.
No matter what, after such hypnosis, I feel that I feel much more comfortable.
Regarding love, countless great literati, poets and philosophers have discussed it. Many masters have their own opinions and have never unified their ideas, which has led to future generations not knowing who to listen to.
In the end, a mathematician and physicist convinced me. The great man was called Pascal. He once said this: "We will never really fall in love with someone. What we fall in love with is always human attributes!"
In my opinion, this is simply a famous saying.
Most people have a list of people they like, and the list lists their favorite attributes.
For example, the three major attributes of a woman's ideal partner are that she has a tall BMW and looks like Andy Lau. One day she happened to meet a tall man with a BMW and looks like Andy Lau. There was no suspense at all, and the woman had to rest on the spot.
In fact, she doesn't necessarily love this man, and her character may not necessarily suit her. It's just that because this man meets the three major attributes in her mind, she will inevitably be unable to extricate herself.
As for me, for a long time, the girl in my mind also had three major attributes, namely: long-haired and charming, graceful temperament, and fluttering white skirt.
When I meet a woman who meets these three attributes, I will fall in love with her, or think I fall in love with her.
According to data analysis, there is no 10,000 girls with long hair and graceful temperament in white dress in China, and there are eight thousand or eight thousand. If they are all met by me, then I will discover their advantages one by one, and then fall in love with them and fall in love with eight thousand of them, that's all.
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Chapter completed!