Gu Zhanyan said: "I lack my mother's family. I have always lacked this. I can get things like career, status, and money for myself through hard work. I only have family, and it is useless to work hard on my own. I don't need you to give it to me."
Otherwise, just stay by my side."
Lan Zhi lowered her eyes.
Gu Zhanyan came closer and grabbed her hand: "Mom, why do you think that getting sick when you are older is a drag on me? When I was sick when I was a child, you never felt that I was a drag on you. Besides, even if you and dad don't leave me, you won't
If you do this job and reach this age, won’t you have all kinds of minor problems? I will also get old one day.”
Lan Zhi held Gu Zhanyan's hand back and choked with sobs: "Zhanyan, mom has missed so much."
Gu Zhanyan: "Well, it's not too late now. Let's not miss it again in the future."
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Gu Zhanyan told Liu Cuihong and Li Changming about Lan Zhi and the others while having dinner.
Li Wenyong was okay because he had already heard Liu Dongmei say something two days ago.
Liu Cuihong and Li Changming were completely stunned and didn't know what to say.
My in-laws actually live on the other side of the factory, and they have been silent for several months, and they don’t interact with each other?!
This is too strange.
The key point was that Li Wenjun didn't tell them either.
Li Wenjun explained for Gu Zhanyan: "The nature of the work of the parents-in-law is quite special. It takes at least a year to be able to interact with the outside world like normal people. From now on, they will be reviewed regularly and irregularly."
Liu Cuihong glanced at Gu Zhanyan: "Oh, we don't understand either. We just feel that Zhanyan is a little aggrieved."
We can't live together, but we still have to talk to each other and come over to say hello. It's not like we only have to wait until now...
Gu Zhanyan: "I talked to my mother today. She is not in good health. She was afraid of dragging me down, so she never told me."
Liu Cuihong suddenly realized: "Oh, my mother-in-law has too many worries. What kind of burden should there be between parents and their children? However, I am also a mother. My mother-in-law and I should be about the same age, so I can completely understand her mood."
Li Changming said: "Manzai, this is what you are doing wrong. My parents-in-law are here. Why don't you invite me to come back and sit with you? Let me and my father-in-law and brother-in-law sit and have a drink. We treat Zhanyan like a daughter.
.”
Li Wenjun smiled: "Yes, I was negligent. I will invite them tomorrow."
Li Changming said to Liu Cuihong: "You and Aunt Tang prepare more good dishes. It's the first time for your in-laws to come to our house, so we need to be more solemn."
Liu Cuihong said: "That's for sure."
Li Jinyan said: "My grandma even made pan-fried buns for me."
Liu Cuihong smiled and pinched his face: "Ah, I know, we must have been too cute early on, and grandma fell in love with you right away."
Li Jinyan said: "I still have an uncle who is abroad. But he has never come back."
Liu Cuihong nodded: "Yes, we have gained several new relatives at once, which is great."
Li Shenxing suddenly snorted: "Oh, it's just my grandparents and uncles. I've always had them."
He originally felt that Li Jinyan had more things than him. Before, he thought that he had grandparents, uncles, etc., and at least he was better than Li Jinyan in this aspect.
Now Li Jinyan also has one, which makes him feel very uncomfortable.
Li Wenyong heard the harsh words, and said to Li Shenxing with a serious face: "How should I talk? Is this a comparison? I didn't mean to compare with you a long time ago."
Li Shenxing jumped up: "He is just comparing himself with me, trying to suppress me in every possible way."
Li Wenyong: "You brat, what are you talking about? Why are you talking to your dad? I have no intention of suppressing you. We can all see clearly that you are the one who stirs up trouble every time."
"Zao Zao has everything, and everything is better than me. Why don't you admit that Zao Zao is my son?" Li Shenxing rubbed his neck, blushed and yelled a few words before rushing out.
Liu Dongmei hurriedly chased after him.
Li Wenjun frowned secretly: This child has quite a lot of inner demons. It is also troublesome.
Li Wenyong pursed his lips: Li Shenxing's current state is quite similar to what he was a few years ago. He has to compete with Li Wenjun in everything, and he doesn't think Li Wenjun is better than him.
He must have said something intentionally or unintentionally, which the child remembered and was affected by.
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Liu Dongmei persuaded Li Shenxing to come back, but Li Shenxing fell asleep angrily.
Li Wenyong was also very angry.
Liu Dongmei didn't sleep well all night. Fortunately, the next day was the weekend and she didn't have to go to work.
In the morning, she saw Li Wenjun and his two children going up the mountain from the sidewalk next to the community. After thinking about it, she decided to go to Gu Zhanyan and knock on the door.
Gu Zhanyan: "Eh? Dongmei, why are you free to come to me today?"
Liu Dongmei sighed: "I want to chat with you. I'm almost worried to death."
Gu Zhanyan hurriedly replied: "Come in quickly. I happen to be the only one at home."
She made Liu Dongmei a cup of hot cocoa, sat down, and smiled: "What makes you so worried?"
Liu Dongmei said: "Well, what else is there? It's not Li Shenxing. I don't know how to teach him. I always feel that the children are still young and they will understand when they grow up. Physical punishment and scolding are wrong and will cause psychological shadow to the children.
And it’s enough to have a father at home who is strict with him. But now he is running further and further away, becoming more and more out of character.”
Gu Zhanyan said: "Originally, only parents have the responsibility to educate their children, and I shouldn't say anything. But since you asked me, and we are just like sisters, let's discuss it. Let's use the martial arts novels that young people like to read as an analogy.
, in fact, learning to deal with people and adapting to society is like practicing a skill. Everyone has different talents, different masters, different levels of effort, and the time it takes to reach the same level and the final level they can reach are also different. For children, the master
It is the people close to them. Some children have many correct templates around them, learn quickly and well, and practice since childhood, so it is easy for them to grow up. Some children do not have correct templates around them or have poor comprehension ability and do not bother to learn, so they will become
He became a thorn in the eyes of others and a weirdo. In fact, when I look back at myself now, before I was forced by Li Wenjun to become the vice principal, I was not qualified in interpersonal communication. Even Li Wenjun himself had shortcomings before, but he was smart, and one day suddenly
That’s when I realized it.”
Liu Dongmei thought for a moment and said, "Isn't it..."
There are many people around her, including her brother Liu Dongsheng, her father Liu Jiefang...
Gu Zhanyan said: "Even if your child is deficient in this area, as long as he doesn't harm nature, breaks the law, or hurts others, you don't have to worry too much. You will know after he has suffered a few losses when he grows up. You have to give him appropriate opportunities to try and make mistakes. If you don't want to
He will suffer from this in the future, so there is no way to help him learn it as soon as possible."
Liu Dongmei: "I'm just anxious, but I don't know what to do."
