Chapter 341 It is better to teach a man to fish than to give him a fish
Liang Shuang's eyes were red, and he lay quietly in Li Mu's arms. He was silent for a long time, and then he opened his mouth and asked, "What should I do?"
Li Mu smiled and said: "You shouldn't ask me this question, you should ask yourself, what are you going to do?"
Liang Shuang said unhappy: "I just couldn't make up my mind, so I asked for your opinion, and you still perfunctory me."
Li Mu said: "This is not perfunctory, this is for your own good."
"Is it good for me?" Liang Shuang looked at him in disbelief: "How can it be good for me if I can't even ask for your opinion?"
Li Muchao: "If a person wants to grow, he must face some things independently."
"I can give you advice on this matter, and I can even help you deal with Lilia without you having to worry about it at all, and have her apologize to you in person."
"But, apart from letting you vent your anger, it also makes your mood a little higher and your character a little more arrogant. What other benefits does this have?"
"What lessons did you learn from this incident? What did you gain? What did you learn? Have you grown up? Have you learned how to think independently and face some things with mature means?"
Liang Shuang: "I..."
After hesitating for a long time, Liang Shuang said: "What you said makes sense, but...but...I have never experienced this kind of thing before, and I have no experience in this area, otherwise I would not be deceived."
"How do you ask me, a person who has not left school, to handle this matter properly? Even if I can handle it, it will definitely be handled improperly and unsatisfactorily. There will be problems everywhere. In the end, I may not be able to do anything to the other party."
"In this way, she can't stand the lesson and I can't vent my anger. Wouldn't it be worse?"
Li Mu said: "You don't understand my intention. This matter is very simple. Of course I can help you solve it and give you better ideas, but you will never gain experience and growth, and you will never be mature and independent."
"You feel very angry about Lilia now. You think it is a big thing. But in a few years, it will actually be just a small thing. You will encounter bigger things than this in the future."
"There are some hardships and some lessons. The sooner you eat them, the better. This incident is actually very small. Even if you have some omissions in how you deal with it, the impact will not be big. You can control the situation easily. For you, this is an exercise.
It’s a good opportunity to continue trial and error, find solutions, exercise your abilities, and enrich your experience in handling things.”
"When you encounter bigger problems in the future, you can calmly deal with them calmly and use your own experience. Just treat her as a monster on the way to upgrade and fight monsters. She will give you experience and equipment. Others want to meet her.
I haven’t met him yet!”
Liang Shuang was dumbfounded and a little confused about whether to laugh or cry. Fighting monsters to give you experience can be compared to this. In the end, he nodded silently.
"I see!"
Li Mu said: "It's good to know. If you are really unsure about paying attention, then imagine that you don't know me, and there is no one to help you with this matter. You are just a female student who comes to Shenzhen City from other places to study."
"There is no one to rely on, and there is no one to help you with advice. In this case, if you encounter this kind of thing, if you are deceived by Lilia, what will be your immediate reaction and how will you deal with it?"
Liang Shuang thought for a while, if she was the only one to deal with it: "I would be very angry. I would go to her immediately and question her. If I had the ability, would I still find a way to vent my anger?"
Li Mu said: "In this case, then do what you want, and without my intervention, rely on your own abilities to see if you can properly resolve this matter."
“I vented my anger and gained growth and experience.”
Liang Shuang was silent for a while, then suddenly nodded thoughtfully: "I understand."
After saying that, he hugged Li Mu and kissed him.
"Thank you, I know you did this for my own good."
She really understood that it is better to teach people how to fish than to teach them how to fish. The help from others is only temporary, but what you control is for the rest of your life.
Li Mu didn't help her deal with things directly, but he taught her how to deal with things.
This ability is even more rare
The next day, in the same cafe as last time, three people sat facing each other.
On one side is Liang Shuang, on the other side is Lilia and her assistant.
Liang Shuang glanced at the two of them and took a sip of coffee: "Lilia, shouldn't you give me an explanation?"
Lilia looked puzzled and said: "Xiao Shuang, what's wrong? What did I do wrong?"
If Liang Shuang hadn't known that he personally handed over the plan to her, she would definitely have been deceived by her. He said in a cold voice: "Stop pretending, let me ask you, what's going on with that Jasmine lipstick advertisement?"
Looking at the angry Liang Shuang, Lilia smiled and said: "Oh, I thought I was going to say something! It's just an advertisement! Is there any problem with this?"
Liang Shuang asked: "That was my idea. You couldn't tell me and you vetoed it. Why did you turn around and use it yourself?"
Lilia smiled as if nothing had happened: "So that's what happened! Xiao Shuang, it seems you misunderstood me!"
"Have I misunderstood you?" Liang Shuang asked in disbelief. She had reached this point and the other party could still say such things without changing her expression. She had to admire her.
Lilia nodded: "Xiao Shuang, you really misunderstood."
Liang Shuang took a deep breath and said, "Okay, tell me where I misunderstood you, and I'll see what nonsense you can come up with."
Lilia was still smiling.
"Xiao Shuang, it's a bit complicated to explain. You may not understand it well and blame me, but I still want to explain it clearly to you."
"Advertising is just like people's clothes and cosmetics. Everyone has their own style. Similarly, these products also need to be matched with different styles of advertising. If the matching is good, the advertising effect will naturally be good, and you will get twice the result with half the effort."
"If the combination is not good, it will be half the result with half the effort."
"Think about it, some advertising projects are obviously very well done, even amazing, but they have very little effect. Why?"
"It's because advertising doesn't match people. No matter how good the advertisement is, if you find someone who doesn't match the advertisement, the effect will be greatly reduced."
Liang Shuang was confused by what she said.
"Lilia, what do you mean? You mean that I don't match this advertisement!"
Lilia clapped her hands and said, "I'll just say it! Sister Xiaoshuang is so smart and transparent, and she understands it at a glance. This is really the case."
"After meeting Sister Xiaoshuang that day, I think your advertising project is very novel. But you look tall, cold, and so beautiful. You can't freely change your style and show that kind of people-friendly style."
"It is also for your consideration that I suggest you give up this unsuitable plan and choose another one that is more satisfactory but more secure."
"I didn't expect that things would develop to this point, and sister Xiaoshuang would misunderstand me!"
Liang Shuang was so fooled by her that she almost believed her, but then she realized what she was saying.
"Even if it doesn't match my style, it's still my plan. Why did you take it away? You also participated in the advertising solicitation and won this ad."