I listened to Xu Minghui detailing his dissatisfaction with me one by one, and I felt very uncomfortable. The reason why I was so tight on family finances was for the long-term plan of our small family. For a working-class couple like us,
, If you don’t save more money when you are young, you will be caught off guard when you reach middle age.
The reason why I say this is because at that time, both parents were over 70 years old, and various diseases were coming one after another. The children were also going to college at that time, or were starting to work after graduation. In general, everything needed money, and the two of us would also have to spend money.
You are no longer young, and your body and energy will be much worse than before. If you don't eat more and work hard to save some money when you are young, by then it will be too late to make ends meet.
Because of this, I am so tight on money in terms of living. I am reluctant to buy expensive clothes for myself. At the same time, I am careful about family expenses and other aspects. It is with this kind of diligence and frugality that Xu Minghui and I have been married for more than ten years.
, only with a dead salary, in addition to the welfare housing allocated by the work unit, can we own another commercial house belonging to us in this big city where land is at a premium, and we can also rent it out to earn extra income.
Xu Minghui didn't care about the contributions I made to the family. He only complained that I gave him too little spare money on weekdays. Why didn't he say that I was even more reluctant to spend money on myself? Besides, Xu Minghui didn't have any spare money at all.
, while I control his salary
, I will also set aside a portion of pocket money for him every month. This amount can definitely meet his basic entertainment expenses. Of course, if he wants to go out to eat, drink, whore, and gamble, it will not be enough. I also prevent him from spending a lot of money on social activities.
He had to learn well in this aspect, so he was stuck in this aspect.
There is also the fact that I followed Xu Minghui closely on the phone when he went out to socialize. I did this because I was worried about his safety. You still didn’t come back in the middle of the night. The society is in such chaos now, can’t I care about it? Furthermore,
In the society we operate in, God knows how much dregs there are. The current social atmosphere is so bad, men
It's too easy for people to learn bad things. It only takes a minute. I'm urging you on the phone. I hope you can come back soon. Firstly, it shows my concern for you, and secondly, it reminds you of your sense of responsibility to this family. It's sad.
Yes, in the end, this became Xu Minghui's "crimes" of abusing him one by one. It is really sad and deplorable.
Looking at Xu Minghui talking endlessly, he said that what I did made him unable to hold his head up in front of his friends and was very embarrassing. Then he said that it was precisely because he felt a little depressed here that he looked for sustenance in Xia Yan.
Blah blah blah blah.
The more I listened, the more something was wrong. Later, I simply interrupted him and said: "Xu Minghui, I finally understand. I have forced you to cheat on me for a long time. Did you count the numbers when you were doing piston movements on Xia Yan?"
What about the atrocities I’ve abused you over the years?”
Seeing me saying this, Xu Minghui forced a smile and quickly put the responsibility on me: "Haichao, look at you, you asked me to speak my mind, but in the end I told the truth, but you didn't like to hear it anymore..."
I lit the table and said to him coldly: "I asked you to tell me, I asked you to seek truth from facts. Are you seeking truth from facts when you say these things?"
Xu Minghui looked at me awkwardly, and then murmured: "Anyway, what I said above is all from the bottom of my heart. What I say to you today is also to let us husband and wife reflect on the way we get along in the past, and hope that we can make improvements in the future."
I stared at Xu Minghui with wide eyes, and for a moment, I laughed. Xu Minghui looked at me a little surprised, not knowing why.
After laughing enough, I squinted my eyes, squinted at Xu Minghui and said to him coldly: "Xu Minghui, you have to show some face! Now you cheated on me during marriage and asked me to catch you on the spot, but you pulled me to reflect with you? Human?
You can’t go to this point if you’re shameless, right?”
Xu Minghui looked at me saying this, his face turned pale, and he couldn't say anything for a moment.
I stood up slowly while holding on to the armrest of the sofa. Seeing me stand up, Xu Minghui blurted out and asked, "Haichao, what are you going to do?"
I waved to him and then said back to him: "The relationship between us has reached this point, don't say anything, let's get divorced!"
Hearing what I said, Xu Minghui was also dumbfounded. After a moment of silence, he stood up with a roar, took my arm and said to me: "Those words I just said were all what you asked me to say!"
I thought you had the endurance to say that, but I didn’t expect you to be so intolerable. If I had known that, I wouldn’t have said those words. I have never thought about divorcing you, even if I am with Xia Yan.
, I was just confused for a moment, and I never thought about the consequences of my relationship with her."
I shook off Xu Minghui's hand and said to him solemnly: "Xu Minghui, I thank you for telling me the truth just now. Otherwise, I would be like a fool hiding in the mountains. I don't know where I am. I think I have lived a long life."
I am very happy and joyful, but in the eyes of others, I am nothing! Now you have made me understand everything and what I should do next."
"Then what are you going to do?" Xu Minghui asked me blankly.
I thought about it, and then replied softly to him: "Think about it carefully, and then draft an agreement. Let's agree on a divorce. If you don't agree to the divorce, I will also go to court to file for divorce. Tiao Tiao is not at home these days anyway.
, I’ll move to our new house first and give you a few days to think about it, then give me a call when you’re done.” As I said that, I walked slowly towards the bedroom.
Xu Minghui stood there blankly, without responding for a long time. Later, he turned around and shouted to me: "Wei Haichao, I will not agree to divorce. Which couple has no conflicts? Which husband does not make mistakes? Just because of one mistake, he will be divorced."
Am I going to die? No way! I will never agree to divorce!"
Seeing Xu Minghui's blushing face and yelling at me, it was completely different from his usual gentle and calm image. I smiled coldly in my heart, shook my head, ignored him and walked straight back to our bedroom.
.
I went to the bedroom to pack my things, put some clothes that I would wear at any time into the suitcase one by one, and then walked out of the bedroom with the suitcase.
Seeing me walking out, Xu Minghui blocked the door, grabbed my arm and said urgently to me: "Haichao, you can't leave!"
I wanted to throw away his hand, but he held it so tightly that I couldn't get away at all.
In desperation, I had no choice but to put down the suitcase in my hand, frowned and shouted at him: "What do you want?"
At this time, Xu Minghui was also anxious. His face turned purple like pig liver. He looked at me panting violently, then grabbed my hand and said to me eagerly: "Haichao, give me another one."
Opportunity, okay? Just forgive me this time, okay? I won’t dare to do it next time..."
Xu Minghui shed tears when he said these words. Watching him shed tears, I actually felt uncomfortable. After all, it is a precious relationship that comes from college all the way through the blooming season and rainy season! How many couples in college can finally be together?
What about those who have achieved positive results?
But Xu Minghui and I have made it together. We should have cherished this rare fate. Who could have expected that we would break up with the ending we have today?
We stood silently at the door of the bedroom, without speaking for a long time. Xu Minghui had tears in his eyes, flushed in the face, and looked at me with longing eyes. I turned my head and tried not to look at Xu Minghui's pleading eyes. In fact, at this time
I couldn't help crying, but I didn't want Xu Minghui to discover my cowardice at this time, so I turned my head away from him.
After a long time, my mood calmed down. I turned around to look at Xu Minghui and said to him in a hoarse voice: "You'd better let me go. Let's both calm down for a few days and think about what we should do in the future. In this situation, we
The two barely live under the same roof, staring at each other, which is even more... embarrassing. It's better to cool down for a few days, don't you think that's the right thing?"
Hearing what I said, Xu Minghui sighed. He reluctantly let go of my wrist, and then said to me in a low voice: "Haichao, if you just want to calm down for a few days, then I... let you go, but I hope
After you calm down, you can come back again, and our family of three can continue to live as before, okay?"
Looking at Xu Minghui's eager and longing eyes, I nodded to him casually. In fact, at this time, I was not sure which direction we should go in the future. At the moment, I just wanted to get rid of him as soon as possible and find a place to calmly think.
our future.
Seeing that I seemed to agree, Xu Minghui quickly reached out to take the suitcase in my hand and said to me: "Then I will take you there."
I looked at the way he was trying to please me and didn't say anything for a moment. In fact, I wanted to say that I'd better take a taxi there, but I thought I would have to struggle with him for a long time, so I acquiesced to his move, and that's it.
Xu Minghui helped me carry my suitcase and went downstairs with me. Then he drove me to the new commercial house we bought.
In fact, this house has always been rented out, but because the last tenant's character was not very good, I made a mess in the bathroom and kitchen. In the end, I drove away the unqualified young couple before the contract expired.
, and then found someone to clean up some of the bathroom and kitchen equipment that they had damaged, and planned to rent it out to some reliable tenants after a while.
I didn't expect that something like this would happen now. Now that I have moved here by myself, I will probably be planning to set up camp here for a long time in the future, so it is impossible to consider renting it out for the time being.
Xu Minghui drove me downstairs to the new house, and I let him go back instead of going upstairs. I told him that we should both calm down for a few days, and then we would share our opinions with each other, and then we would make a decision.
Which step should be taken, Xu Minghui agreed.
After living in the new house for a few days, I kept thinking about whether I should divorce Xu Minghui. Finally, I decided to divorce him.