"The family is stable, but spiritually empty!" Shan You wondered: "When wealth is sufficient, shouldn't we pursue spiritual satisfaction more?"
Xue Ling laughed and said: "You have watched too many TV dramas. How can a person who can achieve high wealth have no time? There are all kinds of things in his life and work, and he is too busy to keep up.
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"Really?" Shan You was obviously too deeply poisoned by idol dramas, and whispered: "How can you not be mentally empty when you only think about making money? Those people who find young girls to accompany them and have fun every day should be very
Empty, right?”
Xue Ling shook his head: "Those who have truly reached the wealthy class do not need to worry about this. We can't give examples to other people, so let's take Xinzhi as an example. He is not an old money man, but a new man who made his own money from scratch.
Rich man. Do you think he is empty? People who pursue ideals in their hearts will never be empty."
"That's because he has Xiaoxin!" Wang Xiaoxiao said with a teasing smile.
Xue Ling burst into laughter: "The emptiness on the spiritual level cannot be solved by just one lover. Similarly, there are many spiritual satisfactions, and the enjoyment of women's color is only one of them, not all of them."
Shan You didn't understand, so he whispered: "Many men say... apart from money, what men pursue in this life is women, nothing else."
"Haha!" Xue Ling was amused again and said: "Those are words only a young boy with a strong temper would say. Anyone who has experienced extreme wealth can look down on it and see through it. Most rich people prefer to pursue family.
We are harmonious and don’t want to engage in some messy relationships that will only cause trouble. I have a friend who is a few years younger than me. He didn’t really get rich until he was in his forties. He refused all the attentive women and didn’t want any of them. He just wanted to be at home.
With his head at ease, he can concentrate on making money."
Wang Xiaoxiao asked curiously: "He must love his wife very much, right? You can't abandon a bad wife."
"No." Xue Ling shook his head: "He doesn't love his wife much. On the contrary, he works hard to make money every day. He and his wife have been separated for a long time, and their relationship is very indifferent. He has stood up after enduring a lot of hardships, so he
He cherishes every penny he earns. He said that among the women who courted him, which one really fell in love with him, they were just after his money. Although his wife is old and ugly, she is not as beautiful as his wife.
His feelings have become indifferent, but after all, he has been with him for so many years, and he is the only one who does not follow him for his money, so even if there is no more feelings, he is determined not to get married. He said that his energy is not as good as before, and he just wants to stay together
His current success and running his career well have consumed all his energy, and he doesn't want to waste time on other women."
"The gains outweigh the losses, right?" Wang Xiaoxiao thought about it seriously and said, "After reaching a certain level, it becomes easier to care about the gains and losses."
Xue Ling explained with a chuckle: "It's not about fussing, but I don't want to waste time and energy on unnecessary things. There are many wonderful things in life, and love or women are just one of them. There is no need to overindulge."
"Maybe he is a special case." Shan You suppressed a smile and whispered: "How many men divorce and marry younger women after they become successful, treating women as accessories or showoffs of their success."
"The ages are different, and the personalities are different." Wang Xiaoxiao analyzed: "The choices are also different. Mom just said that her friend only became successful when he was in his forties or fifties, and he was already past the age of debauchery."
Xue Ling nodded: "This is one of the reasons. As you get older, the fertility hormones in your body are far less than before. Naturally, you are not so enthusiastic about beauties and handsome guys. Things of color, no matter how good and beautiful your skin is, are actually far away.
Not as attractive as interesting or intelligent. Of course, not everyone thinks so. There are also people who are still hugging each other in their seventies or eighties, but the number is relatively small. People like this are mostly deviant, not worldly, and not afraid
The reputation is burdensome, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to do it!”
"Some responsible and pursuing men will definitely not." Shan You said: "When you are young, you may not be able to control your heart, so you may be frivolous. When you get older, most people just want to keep the family and pursue family harmony.
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Xue Ling explained with a smile: "This is also a spiritual pursuit."
Wang Xiaoxiao chuckled and whispered: "Youyou and I have different ideas. I think rich people should be more afraid of divorce. Splitting the property into two is almost like peeling off a layer of skin."
"There is no need to be afraid of the truly rich." Xue Ling explained: "After the property reaches a certain level, even if you divide it by half or one-third, you are still a rich man. You don't need to worry about this. Instead, you are an ordinary person."
Ordinary people think that I only have a small amount of property anyway, so I can leave as soon as I leave, and divide as much as I want, with an indifferent attitude. In fact, most families like this can't afford the trouble, but they still have to make the trouble. In the end, they will only strain their bones and muscles, and hurt the family and children.
, and also hurt myself.”
Shan You understood and said: "Yes! Because in their eyes, a little property is all they have and cannot be judged based on the amount of property."
"Yes!"
Marriage has nothing to do with us and cannot be generalized at all. For some people with complete freedom of wealth, they can be completely free to marry and divorce. Their marriage may be a strong alliance, but their divorce may be just an unhappy cooperation, and the relationship will not be very big.
But for most ordinary people, marriage is about the division of labor and cooperation between husband and wife to support a family. Once they separate, the family will be broken up. It is a serious injury in life that can easily make up for it in a lifetime."
Wang Xiaoxiao said: "Some people always say that the divorce rate is high because people have free thoughts and both men and women have economic freedom. I think there are good and bad things."
Xue Ling smiled softly: "Actually, looking at how high this mountain is, many people are confused by some illusions. No one's marriage is extremely happy. There are many reasons for a happy marriage, and there are also unhappy marriages.
There are many unfortunate reasons. If you don’t believe it, you can consult with the secret investigation report - more than 90% of people are dissatisfied with their marriages, more or less. For example, the three of us are currently
Two of them are not very satisfied with their husbands."
Wang Xiaoxiao and Shan You looked at each other and blushed one after another.
Xue Ling did not find it strange at all: "Go and ask how many people are satisfied with their marriages - it must be very few. As long as you recognize this fact and manage your marriage well, the problem will not be big.
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"Mom, that's what you said..." Wang Xiaoxiao laughed and teased: "Marriage seems scary, there is no need to pursue it!"