Minister Lu really didn’t understand what the word emotional intelligence meant. In this era, no one has heard of the concept of emotional intelligence, and even most ordinary people don’t even know what IQ is.
When Duan Hongxuan said the word emotional intelligence, no one knew what it meant. Minister Lu knew that Duan Hongxuan often said some words or concepts that sounded new or had never been heard before, but Duan Hongxuan said
These new terms often give people a refreshing and refreshing feeling. Therefore, when Duan Hongxuan said the new term emotional intelligence again, Minister Lu immediately became interested.
Others in the living room also wanted to know what emotional intelligence was, so they all looked at Duan Hongxuan, waiting for his explanation.
Duan Hongxuan saw that everyone was listening attentively, and after thinking about it, he felt that there was nothing wrong anyway. Since everyone was sitting here chatting, he would chat with everyone, just to give everyone a lot of insights.
Duan Hongxuan first picked up the tea cup and took a sip of tea to moisten his throat: "Ahem! Since you all want to know what emotional intelligence is, let me tell you.
Before talking about emotional intelligence, let me ask you first, do you know what IQ is?"
Everyone shook their heads to express that they didn't know. Minister Lu hesitated for a moment: "Hongxuan, I seem to have heard someone say IQ. It seems to indicate how smart a person's brain is, right?"
Duan Hongxuan nodded: "Uncle Lu's statement is correct, but it is neither complete nor rigorous.
In layman's terms, IQ indicates a person's intelligence level. In other words, whether a person is smart or not can be expressed by IQ!
In the strict sense, IQ refers to a person's level of intellectual development. IQ is the abbreviation of intelligence quotient. At the beginning of the 20th century, French psychologist Binet and his students compiled the world's first set of intelligence scales. According to this set of intelligence
The scale sets the average IQ of the average person at 100, and according to this set of tests, the IQ of normal people is mostly between 85 and 115.
In 1905, French psychologist A. Binet and doctor T. Simon compiled the world's first set of intelligence test scales, the Binet-Simon Scale, in order to popularize compulsory education and screen out mentally retarded children. There were 30 test items in total.
From easy to difficult, arranged in order. In 1908, based on the results of using the 1905 scale, Binet and Simon made further modifications and proposed a new scale, adding test items from the original 30 to 54 and deleting
Those items that require special training to complete, from 3 years old to adults, each age group has a certain number of test items. In 1911, based on his own experience with other scholars, Binet revised the scale for the last time.
A new scale was published, called the 1911 scale.
Later, Professor Terman introduced this scale to the United States and revised it to the Stanford-Binet Intelligence Scale, and used the ratio of mental age to physiological age as an index to evaluate children's intelligence level. This ratio is called IQ.
Now in some Western countries, there is a set of professional and relatively mature IQ measurement methods used to detect the intelligence of children and adolescents. The English abbreviation of IQ is IQ.
From a scientific and rigorous definition, IQ mainly reflects a person's cognitive ability, thinking ability, language ability, observation ability, calculation ability, rhythmic ability, etc. In other words, it mainly reflects a person's rational ability.
The English abbreviation of emotional intelligence is EQ, which refers to emotional quotient, also known as "emotional intelligence", "emotional intelligence" or "emotional IQ".
If IQ is rational thinking, emotional intelligence is perceptual thinking.
At present, there is no unified and strict definition of emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence mainly reflects a person's ability to feel, understand, use, express, control and regulate his or her emotions, as well as the ability to handle emotional relationships between oneself and others. Emotional intelligence reflects individual grasp.
As with the ability to deal with emotional problems, emotion often goes ahead of reason and is irrational.
IQ and EQ have different functions. The main function of IQ is to understand things better. People with high IQ have excellent thinking quality, strong learning ability, and deep understanding. They are prone to make outstanding achievements in a certain professional field and become leaders in a certain field.
Experts, as we commonly call them, are smart people.
Emotional intelligence is mainly related to irrational factors. It affects the ability to understand and practice activities. It can strengthen or weaken a person's driving force to understand things by affecting people's interest, will, and perseverance.
Generally speaking, emotional intelligence can determine a person's ability to control one's own emotions and the ability to deal with others and other aspects.
We usually say that someone is good at talking, well-rounded, and very communicative. In fact, it shows that this person has a relatively high emotional intelligence. The most typical person with a relatively high emotional intelligence in the courtyard is Sister Qin Huairu Qin."
After hearing Duan Hongxuan's explanation, everyone felt their eyes were opened. He Yuyu smiled and said: "Brother Hongxuan, according to what you say, you are the most intelligent person in our area?"
"Hahaha!" Everyone chuckled, and Li Xianghong laughed and said: "It goes without saying that if Hongxuan didn't have a high IQ, we would all be idiots!
Hongxuan, what should an idiot say using his IQ?"
"Giggle!" Everyone burst into laughter. Looking at Duan Hongxuan, Duan Hongxuan laughed and said: "Since he is an idiot, he must have a low IQ!"
"Hahaha!"
"Hongxuan, does that mean that students in school who study well have high IQs and students who don't study well have low IQs?"
"Sister-in-law Yu Li!" Duan Hongxuan shook his head: "Strictly speaking, there is no positive relationship between IQ and whether you study well. Children who study well do not necessarily have higher IQs than other children, and children who study poorly do not necessarily have higher IQs than other children.
The other kids are bad!”
"Why is this?" Yu Li was confused, "Doesn't studying well mean that the person has a smart brain and is able to learn? Since the brain has a bright brain, doesn't it mean that the person has a high IQ?"
"Sister-in-law, there is no strict relationship between how well you study and whether you are smart or not. In fact, if you look at many children in school who do not study well, they are naughty and mischievous all day long, but many of them are very smart. Sometimes they are doing other things.
They are even smarter than those children who study well. The reason why these children don't study well is not because they are not smart and have low IQ, but because they are unwilling to learn or are unwilling to devote their attention to learning!
This chapter is not over, please click on the next page to continue reading! Generally speaking, normal people’s IQs are in a normal range, and there is not much difference between being smart or not! Children in the same class and the same school actually have the same IQs.
There is not much difference. The quality of learning depends on whether they are attentive and willing to study hard.
Therefore, it is very important to cultivate good study habits in children from an early age. This good habit is the basis for determining whether the child will study well in school in the future, not IQ!
Of course, for those whose IQs are significantly higher than normal children, even if they don't put much effort into their studies, they can easily achieve very good results in their studies. This is purely the difference in IQ, there is nothing you can do about it.
However, people with such high IQs are often very few. In a country as big as ours, within the same generation, there are only a very small number of people with higher IQs than ordinary people!”
"Oh!" Everyone understood now.
Director Luo asked curiously: "Hongxuan, your IQ should be higher than that of different people, right?"
As soon as Director Luo asked, everyone looked at Duan Hongxuan curiously. Duan Hongxuan leaned back on the sofa deliberately and proudly: "Aunt Luo, your question is a bit redundant. Do you still need to ask it?"
Director Luo laughed dumbly and scolded angrily: "Look at the way I dragged you, I know you are a college student, you are smart, you have a high IQ, you are great!"
"Aunt Luo, what you said is a bit imprecise. Those who can get into college may not necessarily have higher IQs than those who don't get into college. It's just that those who can get into college must have high IQs. But this kind of
The so-called IQ is not low means that the IQ of these people is not lower than the average level of ordinary people. It does not mean that the IQ of college students is higher than that of ordinary people!"
"Okay, okay, okay, I got it, you just said it!" Director Luo waved his hand impatiently, "Don't you just want to show that you have a higher IQ than the average person, so that you can be proud of it.
Let me ask you, you just talked about IQ and EQ, which one is more important, IQ or EQ?"
Everyone became interested when they heard it. Yes, which one is more important, IQ or EQ? Li Xianghong thought for a while and said: "I think it should be IQ! A person with a low IQ is a fool. If a fool has EQ, what's the use of it?"
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Just like Hongxuan and Qin Huairu, Hongxuan also said just now that Qin Huairu has a high emotional intelligence, but compared with Hongxuan, I think Hongxuan is more powerful!"
Everyone nodded after hearing this, thinking that what Li Xianghong said was reasonable.
He Yuyu asked Duan Hongxuan: "Brother Hongxuan, is what you said to Sister Xiang Hong right?"
Duan Hongxuan shook his head: "Sister Xiang Hong is only a little bit right, most of it is not right!
For people whose IQ is too low or whose IQ level is lower than that of normal people, that is, people who we usually think of as having obvious brain problems or problems with their intellectual development, it is meaningless for these people to discuss emotional intelligence.
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Generally speaking, when we talk about emotional intelligence, we refer to people with normal intelligence. In this case, everyone has a similar level of intelligence, and the difference between people depends entirely on emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence can affect the performance of intelligence, so for ordinary people, emotional intelligence is very important.
Sex is far greater than IQ!
Sister Xiang Hong compared me with Qin Huairu. This comparison itself is appropriate.
Because firstly, I can say without exaggeration that my IQ is much higher than Sister Qin, so this comparison is meaningless. Secondly, Sister Xiang Hong, why do you think my emotional intelligence is low? When dealing with people
I'm afraid I'm no worse than Sister Qin in terms of interpersonal relationships, right?"
"Uh!" Li Xianghong was stunned. Thinking about it carefully, it seems that this is really the case. Duan Hongxuan's ability to deal with people seems to be no worse than Qin Huairu! In the past, everyone only paid attention to Duan Hongxuan's intelligence and ignored his ability to deal with people. Now thinking about it, Duan Hongxuan
Not only is he no worse than Qin Huairu in this aspect, he seems to be even better!