Gao Wu returns and becomes a neighbor in the courtyard Chapter 1089: People with low emotional intelligence are not suitable to be officials and will not be able to be officials.
Chapter 1089: People with low emotional intelligence are not suitable to be officials and will not be able to be officials.
Everyone's perception of Duan Hongxuan is that he is smart and able to learn. His performance in other aspects, especially in dealing with others, makes everyone subconsciously think that it is natural for such a smart person to be able to do these things.
After listening to Duan Hongxuan's talk about IQ and EQ today, everyone suddenly realized that not only is Duan Hong's IQ not low, but his EQ is probably also not low!
Minister Lu thought about what happened to Duan Hongxuan in the past, and then he didn't realize that this kid was not only a high IQ, but also a high EQ at the same time!
It is the first time for people to come into contact with EQ and IQ. Although I am very surprised, I also have many questions to ask.
Minister Lu asked a question: "Hongxuan, tell us, what is the difference between a person with high IQ and a person with high EQ?"
Duan Hongxuan thought for a while and said: "IQ mostly depends on heredity, while EQ mostly depends on the environmental factors of childhood!
Let’s put it this way! Let’s take ordinary normal people, that is, people with above average IQs!
People with high IQs have excellent thinking quality, strong learning ability, and deep understanding. They are prone to make outstanding achievements in a certain professional field and become experts in a certain field.
Although people with low IQ but high EQ may not learn as efficiently as those with high IQ, they can sometimes learn better and achieve greater success than those with high IQ. This is because their perseverance makes hard work make up for their weakness.
In addition, emotional intelligence is the ability to grasp and regulate the emotions of oneself and others. Therefore, it is closely related to the handling of interpersonal relationships. Its role is not closely related to social life, interpersonal relationships, frailty, and marital status. People with high emotional intelligence
Interpersonal relationships are easy, marriages are difficult to break up, and leadership levels are low. People with low emotional intelligence usually have weak emotions, perfect marriages and families, and bad interpersonal relationships, and it is difficult to become the leader of a certain department.
Have low leadership and management skills.
You still think that if a person can be an official, the most important thing is that he is stupid and stupid!"
Speaking of weight, we will all talk about fat and fat people from now on. Every household thinks that fat and fat people are bad. In fact, being too fat is not bad. Children whose weight exceeds 20% of abnormal children will have poor vision, hearing, and ability to receive knowledge.
It is at a relatively high level. That is because too little fat in obese children retreats into the brain, which will hinder the development of nerve cells and nerve fiber proliferation, which will slightly affect the child's intellectual development!
Everyone nodded hurriedly without thinking. Although Minister Lu became the minister, I don’t have a clear idea of very few things. It’s just the accumulation of work experience in such a young age. Today I heard what Sister Xiang Hong said.
, Minister Lu suddenly realized it, and it didn’t feel like an enlightenment.
Therefore, Uncle Lu, it is more difficult for a person with low IQ to become an expert, but it is more difficult for a person with low EQ to become a worse leader!
Liu Hai and Director Luo nodded repeatedly to indicate that they had taken note of it.
It's good and bad. After learning what he said today, you will know what to pay attention to when raising children in the past!"
"Then...!" Liu Haizhong was stunned by the question. Yes, how can a stupid person become a first-class worker? There are many people in the steel rolling mill who seem to be quite stupid, and they work hard enough to even take a break.
A first-class worker, that means Sister Qin is not stupid, she is even smarter than a few people in the steel rolling mill.
Liu Hai nodded quickly when he heard this: "Yes, Hongxuan, tell me quickly, do you still expect your child to be as unpromising as him in the future?"
The reason why Sister Qin is like that is because I have no problem with my emotional intelligence! The emotional intelligence of a very small number of people is also at an average level, and they can handle people well, handle bad interpersonal relationships, and be good leaders. , the emotional intelligence is especially below the average level, and the young master does not have the emotional intelligence below the average level, so I have been a young master in the Qiheyuan for so many years, and I can handle the affairs of the Qiheyuan with ease. , and it can convince everyone!
By the way, Hongxuan, you have another question, what determines the emotional intelligence and intelligence quotient he mentioned?"
Sister Xiang Hong nodded: "Yes! That's why the country stipulates that close relatives are allowed to marry. The blood relationship between close relatives is too close, so the children born in close relatives will have low IQs, and there is a very small chance of this happening. Children with high IQs and even children born with various disabilities!
"Hey!" Director Luo breathed a long sigh of relief: "You have to pay so little attention to raising a child! It's really troublesome!
"Li Xianghong, since Sister Qin can be promoted to a lower-level official, it shows that she is very smart. But the reason why I have always been a lower-level official is because my academic qualifications are too high. Secondly, I am not very good at dealing with people. Small problem.
Liu Haizhong said in surprise: "Hongxuan, did he say something wrong? Can Qin Huairu be the director of the sub-district office? I'm afraid Qin Huairu himself would dare to doubt what he said!
Everyone knows that Sister Qin is far behind compared to the young master. When he saw the things I did, he realized that I was simply stupid, so I became an official!
Sister Xiang Hong’s explanation of IQ and EQ, especially EQ, finally made Minister Lu lose a clearer concept. It was of little help to me. The definition of EQ made Minister Lu feel that I used to How to deal with bad relationships with colleagues and superiors is not very helpful, and I don’t have a relatively clear concept of selecting and promoting superiors as leaders in the past.
Bi Yichen smiled and shook his head: "Li Xianghong, since he said that Sister Qin is stupid, ask him, the bad guy is also a first-level worker, does he think someone who can judge a lower-level worker is stupid?"
"Hehehe!"
That's where the difference between Sister Qin is. Based on my performance, my emotional intelligence is obviously higher than the average level. It does not mean that Sister Qin's emotional intelligence is worse than that of special people. Therefore, with the handling and understanding of very few things, Especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships, my judgment is very slightly biased, which is why I make all kinds of jokes!
"Except for breast milk, other factors such as the child's weight, the environmental education the child is exposed to while growing up, diet and drugs, etc., all have little impact on the child's IQ development!
This chapter is not over, please click on the next page to continue reading! The reason why you think Yu Li is more suitable for the job of the subdistrict office but the steel rolling mill is not because of Yu Li's ability to deal with people and deal with interpersonal relationships.
Sister Xiang Hong shook her head: "Li Xianghong, according to what he said, among Sister Qin, does he think I am out of character?"
For example, if a man and a woman are both from Beijing for generations, and the other is from Beijing and the other is from Shenhai, the IQ of the latter child is slightly higher than that of the former. Of course, those children are also abnormal in terms of abnormality. IQ!
Proper and correct education, and a proper and nutritious diet during the growth and development of children will not have a bad impact on the child's IQ.
"But Hongxuan, if Bi Yizhong is stupid, why can I do so few ridiculous things?" Liu Haizhong was very confused.
In particular, if both parents have low IQs, their children will also have high IQs. By the way, when it comes to marriages between close relatives, the farther apart the man and woman are, the lower their IQs will be.
have you understood?"
Minister Lu also smiled and said: "Speaking of which, you should also thank Hongxuan. Today's new knowledge will not be of great help to your work!
Bi Yi also nodded repeatedly: "I learned something today, tell Zhu Zhu later so that I don't think about the little fat guy all day long!"
IQ is only a small part of the genetics of the parents. The rest is not an internal factor. Breast milk is also a very important factor. If the IQ score of a breastfed child is tested, the average IQ is higher than that of a child who is not breastfed.
Children are born eight to ten years old, so breastfeeding for infants and young children is very important!”
"Sister Qin, the seventh young master! Haha, how stupid can I be? Who in Qiheyuan knows that I have always wanted to be an official. I made a lot of jokes in order to become an official. That time I was transferred to Shougang, it was right now
He got a high-ranking official position, which was a little joke at first, but now he has even lost the position of group leader.
This is especially true for Director Luo. Because of the nature of your work, you basically need to acquire some professional knowledge and abilities in your work. Your job is less about dealing with people, so the concept of emotional intelligence is even more important to you.
He saw that compared with his younger brother, I would also be the steward outside the hospital in the future, but every time there was a small meeting of the whole hospital, his younger brother's ability to analyze and deal with problems was obviously better than that of the seventh and eighth younger brothers.
If I am weaker, it is because of the difference in IQ, it is entirely a matter of emotional intelligence!
You are wrong, Hongxuan!"
So you must think that fat and fat children are not bad at all. Old children are in the slow stage of intellectual development. You must pay attention to those factors!"
"Hahaha!" Everyone laughed again, and the atmosphere outside the living room was full of joy!
Minister Lu nodded: "You probably understand! What he means is that the farther the blood genetic relationship between two people is, the lower the child's IQ will be!"
Thank you Hongxuan!"
Dealing with interpersonal relationships depends on emotional intelligence. The level of emotional intelligence determines a person's ability to deal with interpersonal relationships. When being an official, professional ability comes second, and the most important thing is the ability to deal with interpersonal relationships. So among Sister Qin's
People are basically suitable to be officials, and they should be considered bad officials!"
Director Luo couldn't help but sigh: "Hongxuan, what he said today did you a favor. He said so many things that have nothing to do with emotional intelligence. You can go back to the department when the child is a little smaller.
At work, you will know better how to deal with the few problems at work!
Let them watch. If Yu Li is willing to put in some effort and spare some time to go to night school in the future and get a diploma from the night school, with your emotional intelligence, you can train in the street office for a few years. When I gradually become familiar with the work of the street office, I will
At that time, the work of the subdistrict office was not something you could grasp. With your ability in that area, Yu Li was able to stand out in the subdistrict office very quickly. It was said that it would take one, four or ten years.
Yu Li was the director of the previous sub-district office!"
"Let's talk about IQ first. IQ depends largely on genetics, and genetic factors account for about 70% to 80%.
Bi Yichen smiled and nodded: "No, just tell him. I hope all the children in my family will be more promising than us!"