Chapter 1090 Duan Hongxuan bullies Silly Zhu again
"Hongxuan, after talking so much about IQ, tell us what factors determine emotional intelligence?"
"Okay Uncle Lu." Duan Hongxuan nodded: "I just said that IQ is mostly determined by innate heredity, while EQ is just the opposite. EQ is mostly determined by acquired environment.
The environment a child is exposed to from birth to growth largely determines the child's emotional intelligence in the future.
As I just said, emotional intelligence generally determines a person's ability to recognize his or her own emotions, properly manage emotions, self-motivate, recognize other people's emotions, and manage interpersonal relationships. All of these do not depend on genetic factors, but basically
It is what a person learns from the surrounding environment, people and things around him as he grows up.
If you observe carefully, you will find that among those people in the alley who are well-spoken and well-rounded, there are always a few children at home. When playing with other children, this child will often be in a dominant position, and other children are more willing to listen to him.
, this is the ability to recognize, manage emotions and deal with interpersonal relationships, and this ability is often learned by the child from the adults at home."
Speaking of this, Duan Hongxuan looked at everyone: "You all have children, so in the future, especially in front of children at home, adults will tolerate it when they want to quarrel. Otherwise, a child will watch the adults in his family quarreling at home every day.
The child will become extreme or withdrawn and unsociable in the future. How can such a child be highly educated?
Uncle Lu, the same goes for you. You and Aunt Luo may, but don’t take some things that go well with you at work when you don’t have time, otherwise it will affect the children outside the home and set a bad example for them. This is not
To control your emotions is to control them!”
Minister Lu pointed at Pang Xiuyou and scolded with a smile: "That stinking old man is trying to educate you!"
"Old Lu, what Hongxuan said was wrong, so he just listened!"
"Uh!" Minister Lu picked up the tea cup and spoke dejectedly. Li Xianghong couldn't help but laugh. Minister Lu glared at Li Xianghong angrily, and Li Xianghong laughed even more happily.
"Okay! You can see that you ran away from tonight's dinner. Even your wife and your sister are facing you, with their elbows turned inward. Who are they? You are
Didn’t I just have a drink during the Chinese New Year? Why would I bully you like that?
"My wife, what important thing did they say just now? Hongxuan, what did he say to your wife just now? Just go home and get a change of clothes, and in just a short while, Yu Li turned to your nose.
It’s the nose, it’s the eyes!”
If you forget something again while talking back, he said yes, Brother Zhuzhu!"
"Hahaha!" Xiaojia was amused by Silly Zhu and made him laugh.
"Hey! Brother Zhuzhu, that's wrong, you can speak idioms!"
Just now Hongxuan told you about the bad things about bad boys to open your eyes. What I said was so important for you to educate your children in the past, but he was here at that time, and he was really mad at you! "
At that moment, the door curtain opened, and Silly Zhu came back with a change of clothes in his hand. As soon as he left the living room, Silly Zhu said curiously: "You heard it was quite quiet outside their house outside the yard. What made them so quiet?"
Depressed?"
"Zhu!" When Yu Li saw Silly Zhu coming, she immediately shouted angrily: "He said that he went out in the afternoon and spent half the morning to see people, but when he came back, he had to go home to get clothes and take a shower!
He Yuyu also glared at Si Zhu: "Brother, don't blame your sister-in-law for talking about him. Just now, Brother Hongxuan told you about emotional intelligence and IQ. It is very important to their children. He is listening."
What a pity!
"Pfft! Grrrr!" Duan Hongxuan chuckled, "Zhuzi, he's still an honest man! I don't think it's better than Han Xiaozhuang, but Xiaozhuang is a serious and honest man!
Duan Hongxuan nodded repeatedly with a wicked smile: "Okay, okay, okay, He Yuzhu is an honest man!"
"Daughter-in-law!" Silly Zhu looked at Pang Xiu, "Daughter-in-law, there's something wrong. It doesn't matter what you heard just now. I'll tell you later before I let Hongxuan do it for you alone. You must listen carefully and remember it carefully!
"Uh!" Silly Zhu looked at the angry Pang Xiu and felt that he was wronged: "Daughter-in-law, he just said that you were afraid of the smell of alcohol in your body, so you went home to get a change of clothes and take a shower.
Why did it become yours again then?"
Yu Li smiled and said to Silly Zhu: "Zhuzi, if he wants our son to grow taller in the future, he should listen to Hongxuan honestly, hurry up and cook, and ask Hongxuan to tell him what to do later.
If we raise our children to be stupid, they will have no future!
At that time, Shazhu was so angry that he hugged his son and complained to his son, "Son, he saw that his uncle was so kind. He bullied his father every time because of his stupidity. Son, he
Grow up quickly, and when he grows up, he will avenge his father!"
Li Xianghong was so angry that she waved her hand like a fly: "Hurry up and take a bath with him!"
Silly Zhu returned to the living room after taking a shower. He happily picked up the child and was having fun. Pang Xiuyou came to me and said, "Brother Zhuzi, it's been a while. Is he considering going up to make a baby for Xiaojia?"
Rice!”
Li Xianghong rolled his eyes and threw it away: "When did you tell him anything bad!"
Silly Zhu scratched his head depressedly: "How come you all ended up like that when you were just picking up clothes?"
"He...!" Silly Zhu pointed at Li Xianghong angrily, "Let's take advantage of him and rob him!"
"Brother Zhuzi, you cooked breakfast today and you also cooked lunch. The lunch was quite rich, with a lot of small fish and meat. For dinner, just have a lighter meal. Make some porridge, some noodles, and stir-fry a few vegetables carefully. He will be fine.
Look, it's so complicated. Does he stretch out his hand to show that he's inside? Then you waste your saliva and it becomes even more boring.
Yu Li covered her mouth and laughed. You have seen that kind of scene too rarely. Anyway, our Zhuzi always took advantage of it, but she also knew why. Yu Li felt it was quite funny every time she saw that kind of scene.
"young married woman?"
"What business?" Silly Zhu looked at Li Xianghong in confusion, and Duan Hongxuan said with a bad smile: "Okay, Zhu Zhu, he hurriedly took a bath, and told him that it was vague for a while, and waited for him to go home after taking a bath.
Let Yu Li tell them quickly!"
"Giggle!" He Yuyu also suppressed his laughter: "Brother, just accept his fate!"
Who asked him to go out and drink with people on the first day of the Lunar New Year and miss such an important thing? Let him cook dinner as a reward for him. Go quickly, you little guys are all hungry!"
"Hey, Hongxuan, we just talked about bad things, he shouldn't lie!"
You have just finished taking a bath and you are planning to make love to your son! Besides, this is his house, he is the master and you are the guest, so there is no reason for guests to cook!"
"Let you cook? There's a way!
"What did we talk about? He asked the little guy if you promised him anything just now? He has always been talking to himself here. You promised him something from the beginning to the end. At the beginning, you just urged him to hurry up.
To take a bath!"
He, he will go to Qiheyuan and ask himself to see who thinks he, He Yuzhu, is an honest person!"
Yu Li waved her hand in disgust: "Hurry up and take a shower!"
Although Li Xianghong said that my cooking skills are wrong, I love cooking. If I can cook without another person whose cooking skills are wrong, Li Xianghong will certainly be lazy.
He missed something bad when he got home that time.
"Grrrr!"
"No one wants you to open the big stove for me alone. Why are you wasting your time and wasting your saliva when it's just for no reason!"
Silly Zhu chuckled: "Okay, you go take a shower!"
Hongxuan, let’s talk about it. I’ll find a time later when he can explain to you what he just said!”
"Yes, did you hear what he said just now? Does he have to talk to you alone about our relationship? That concerns your children. Your children are his nephews and nephews. He said it himself
Tell me, does his uncle have to take some responsibility?"
Son, your father is so miserable! Let him play with his mother first, his father has to cook for others, and you are not a cook!
Hongxuan just talked about some very important factors that determine whether a child will be good or bad in the future. He is good at such an important thing. No wonder their Pang Xiu is angry!
You heard so little just now. If you had heard what you were feeling now, you would have regretted it to death. So he said to himself, could his wife be angry? You are angry only for yourself.
It’s for their children!”
Each of us will bully an honest man like you, his father!"
"Don't you think Hongxuan is as kind to his brothers as he is? Even though he promised something just now, his look clearly didn't mean he was rejecting it. He can bully an honest man like you!"
Later he asked his sister-in-law to talk to him, do you think he should study it seriously?"
You have always cheated and deceived, and you have always been like Mr. Ba, who always plots and takes advantage of others, and you will help others when you can. You just can't help but say it when you encounter things that you are used to seeing.
Two sentences, how come you are an honest person?"
"Hmph! He still felt aggrieved. He said that if he had been drinking, he would have taken a shower!"
Minister Lu chuckled and said: "Zhuzi, to be fair, he is now a father. At their age and in those years, they probably only had one child. They raised the child from big to small until he grew up, and became parents.
Everyone hopes that their children will be successful in the future.
"Duan Hongxuan, how come you are an honest person? You have to be an honest person like Han Xiaozhuang. What a fool. If others bully me and take advantage of me, I will just say yes or no. Is this an honest person?
Silly Zhu also knows why. Every time I quarrel with Pang Xiu, I always suffer. But I am not happy to quarrel with Li Xianghong, but every time I am so angry that I roll my eyes but there is nothing I can do.
