Every weekend, Xie Qingyun always goes to college to attend classes. She is a graduate student in education and has come into contact with many cases related to students.
When she got home on Sunday evening, she didn't want to cook anymore, so she went to Hua's house to buy some food. She chatted with Zhao Nianhua. When she said "a student jumped off a building due to depression", Hua Aiguo suddenly came over and asked.
"Is depression really a disease?"
"Of course!" Xie Qingyun said: "Many people think that depression means being in a bad mood, or crying like Lin Daiyu, but it is not the case at all. People's bodies will get sick, and their emotions will get sick. If they get sick, they will get depression.
Symptoms. If not treated in time, it would be very dangerous.”
Hua Aiguo was a little anxious: "What are the dangers?"
"I heard from the professor that during the onset of depression, I was depressed and could not be interested in anything. I had severe insomnia and was confused and wanted to leave this world... But this period was not the most terrifying, the most
What’s scary is that the period when depression improves, and most suicides occur during this period.”
Hua Aiguo's legs became weak: "This disease...can people commit suicide?"
"Well. The patient itself is very painful, but what is even more painful is that no one understands it. Because in most people's eyes, depression is equivalent to being in a bad mood, and is equivalent to being weak and cowardly... There are also many parents who think their children are in
Pretend to be sick, or as long as you become strong, it will be fine. This is a big misunderstanding. If your body is sick, you have to take medicine to get better, and you even have to be hospitalized for surgery. If you are sick, it is more troublesome than if you are sick in the body. You not only have to take medicine,
I also have to receive psychological counseling continuously.”
Hua Aiguo was in a daze and asked, "This disease... isn't really sentimental?"
"No, sentimental people can vent their emotions in time, but they will not easily get depression. People who are particularly kind, simple, and sensitive are more likely to get depression."
It's over, Hua Aijun and his daughter are such people.
Hua Aiguo was at a loss. On the day her niece just came back, she told him clearly that her mother had depression, so she reduced her contact with her family. Hua Aiguo didn't take it seriously at all, but after hearing what Xie Qingyun said, he
I realized that depression is not a fashionable new term, but a very terrible disease?
Hua Aiguo still couldn't fully understand it, but he was worried about his sister's safety, so he was restless and didn't know what to do.
Xie Qingyun was eating cold pig ears and drinking beer, and asked in surprise: "Brother, do you have symptoms of depression?"
"That's not..." Hua Aiguo walked around anxiously: "Why did he get this disease?"
"Well... I'm not a psychology specialist, and I can't explain it clearly. And the teacher talks about it all about students, so I only have a slight understanding of this disease. The teacher said that some students have been isolated and bullied for a long time.
, or being insulted by a teacher, may suffer from depression. However, this question has just been raised, and most people lack understanding of this and need more popular science.”
Hua Aiguo sat on the stool and murmured: "So, Yulin may also suffer from depression?"
"Huh?" Xie Qingyun finished his last sip of wine and said, "Yu Lin was only sixteen or seventeen years old at that time. She encountered so many bad things in school... Brother Hua, the past is irreversible, from now on
Start by paying more attention to Yulin's mental health! - That, don't tell my mom about drinking! I'm leaving!"
Hua Aiguo has already regretted it.
Hua Yulin wandered outside for a day and didn't return home until the evening. Her cheeks were flushed, and she probably came back after drinking.
Hua Aiguo was waiting anxiously. When he smelled the wine on his niece, he was even more irritable: "You are a little girl, you are not familiar with the place. You are so late, and you still dare to drink outside?"
"I'm in a bad mood..." Hua Yulin shook: "A drunkenness relieves a thousand worries!"
Hua Aiguo pulled her down and asked, "Yulin, your mother has suffered from depression. Is this true? What's going on? Tell me."
Hua Yulin smiled and said, "Uncle, what's wrong with you? Don't you care about depression?"
"I didn't know before, but now I know, so I'm very anxious!"
Hua Yulin didn't want to say it at first, but after drinking, she used the alcohol to tell the past: "When my mother was in a car accident, you went with me. My mother suffered a serious injury.
The trauma, half of the face was broken, and the right face was cut by glass."
"Well, I know. Your mother is the host. After she was disfigured, she really broke down. But she was very strong in front of me. She said that as long as she saved her life, she would be very grateful. She also said,
Medicine is very developed now, and those scars can be erased... That's what she told me, and I believe it."
"In a national station full of talents, who would use a host with scars on his face?" Hua Yulin said sadly: "Although my mother intends to develop in the direction of producers, the host is her old career
, She occasionally thought about the host's addiction. But she could never return to the stage. The hard work she had worked hard for more than ten years was gone. Many nights, after I fell asleep, my mother was there
She kept crying in the living room, pulling her hair and slapping herself in the face. But when she turned to see me, she pretended to be nothing."
Hua Aiguo closed his eyes tightly, and his heart was almost broken. How could his sister be so optimistic in the face of fate teasing him? It was because his mind was too simple and he ignored his sister's true feelings.
Hua Yulin held her cheek and said, "My mother not only disfigured her appearance, but also left sequelae due to cerebral hemorrhage. The left half of her body was not in control. My mother was strong all her life, but she even struggled to go up the stairs. She finally returned.
When she went to the unit, she received sympathetic gazes from her colleagues. She had the opportunity to be sent out, but those sent out were all elite soldiers and generals. Which unit would send a semi-disabled person out? So,
My mother became depressed. In order to save my mother, I offered to ask her to change her environment. So my mother stopped paying and went to Spain to study."
Hua Aiguo's pupils were earthquakes: "Did your mother go to work, but to study?"
Hua Yulin then covered her mouth nervously: "Oh, my mother asked me to keep it secret..."
"Your mother is studying, does she have a source of income? Your grandma is sick, and she even sent a lot of money to her home..." Hua Aiguo became more and more regretful as he spoke, and he couldn't help but stamp his feet: "Why am I so stupid! I'm all.
Didn't notice it!"
"My mother has published books and has always paid for the manuscript. In addition, she has studied Spanish for many years and is usually used as an interpreter and translator, which can also subsidize the family income. I have grown up and can make money. My mother and I live a life of
Very frugal. My mother often says to save money and send it to her grandma and uncle. Because she can't be filial to her, she can only compensate you for money."
Hua Aiguo, who is burly and Hua Aiguo, who is full of manliness, smashes himself in the head with annoyance. He claims to be a good brother, respects his parents, supports his younger brother and sister, and drives the atmosphere of the entire Hua family very well. But he even happens to his sister.
He knew nothing, and he felt extremely distressed and regretted.