I smiled bitterly, "I really didn't notice it. Maybe this is a habitual expression?"
He said: "Xiao Feng, actually I am not completely sure, because my research in this area has just begun. The behavioral part of psychology is difficult to study thoroughly. I am just reminding you to pay attention.
"
Hearing what he said, I felt relieved: it turned out that he had just started researching. I said: "Thank you for the reminder. Maybe he thinks I am too young? But it doesn't matter, as long as he is on the issue of principle."
Just don’t go against me.”
After getting off the car outside the community, I said goodbye to Director Wu, and then walked into the community. Director Wu originally said that he would let me go in the car, but I refused. I thought to myself, if he arrived at my door, I would
Should I invite him in to sit with me or not? I am really tired today and don’t want to continue this tiredness.
Also, I drank a lot today and wanted to walk some distance to sober myself up.
As I walked, I was thinking that maybe Director Wu's observation of Sun Dabao today was correct. It is possible that he looked down on me deep down in his heart.
At this moment, I suddenly thought again of the day he took me to the canteen to eat together. I didn't know that the situation in the canteen was like that. Fortunately, I realized something was wrong right away, otherwise others would definitely gossip about me. Of course.
, I believe that Secretary Dong will not care too much about this, and even if I didn't pay attention at the time, I can explain it to him afterwards. In the final analysis, this is still the result of my carefulness.
However, that incident also made me suspicious of Sun Dabao, because he clearly knew that everyone waited for Secretary Dong to arrive before eating, but he still called me to the cafeteria so early.
What is this if it's not intentional?
Perhaps, now he has to accept the reality that I am his superior, and at the same time he recognizes me because I accepted his nephew to become my secretary, but the feeling of looking down on me in his heart still exists, and
It can also manifest itself unintentionally.
Of course, the contemptuous expression on his face that Director Wu saw was definitely not intentional. Just as Director Wu said, it was an unintentional expression.
As for me, even though I now understand the reason for this, I don't feel disgusted or resentful towards him because of it, because I think it is normal for a person to have such emotions. After all, he doesn't care about me yet.
Understood, or maybe he always thought that I could become the mayor because of my background.
At this time, I suddenly remembered what our Dongjiang organization director asked me that day. He asked me about my relationship with Kang Demao. Now I understand, maybe in his heart he also thinks that Kang Demao and I are both because of
Considering the background, it is very likely that what he really thought in his heart was: Kang Demao and I are both from Governor Huang and Lin Yu.
Indeed, now that I think about it, his words that day cannot help but evoke such associations.
In other words, maybe there are more than one or two people in the Standing Committee of Dongjiang who have doubts about my ability. Now, I suddenly understand why Secretary Dong asked me to discuss those opinions in front of the Standing Committee that day. In the final analysis, this is
In order to show my unique thinking on some issues.
Secretary Dong is the top leader of Dongjiang. He needs me to work closely with him in the future. He should understand that if my ability is doubted by others, it will definitely affect the advancement of work in the future. As the top leader of a place, he must maintain
To ensure the unity of the entire team, we must do a good job in all aspects of "people" issues.
Thinking of this, I couldn't help but smile bitterly in my heart. Now, I feel that the pressure on myself is even greater, because I suddenly understand a truth: the only way I can make achievements in my future work is to quickly handle the work at hand.
Pushing forward is the only way to win the respect of others.
Being respected cannot be forced.
When I got home, the child had already fallen asleep, and I saw Chenchen packing up things on the piano. She looked at me, "Have you been drinking?"
I nodded, "Yeah. I drank some with some friends. But it's okay, I'm not very drunk yet."
She was still looking at me, "Didn't you go to Shangjiang? Why did you get drunk with your friends?"
I shook my head and said, "I didn't go to Shangjiang. I called the relevant people to come to the provincial capital. As a result, everyone talked happily and went to drink together."
Her face suddenly became a little ugly, "Smile, I don't want to care about you, but I still say the same thing, if you can't drink it, try not to drink it. Your job itself requires you to drink a lot, if not
For the sake of work, you should try your best to refuse drinking."
I suddenly felt a little unhappy, "Today is also about work matters? My deputy when I was in Shangjiang went to Kangdu to be the mayor, and the person I asked to talk to today also had a good conversation.
In addition to work, I also have interactions with friends. This is also necessary, okay?"
She walked towards me, put her hands on my shoulders, and she was looking at me. I immediately saw her familiar eyes, and my heart suddenly felt warm. I said, "I'm sorry, I'll try to be more careful in the future."
.”
But she shook her head, "Smile, I don't mean anything else, I'm doing it for your own good. Think of my uncle, and then your dad. I'm worried about you, why do you know that drinking too much is bad for your health?"
, but you have to drink often? Not all people in your officialdom can drink, right? Those who don’t drink, don’t do their jobs? I think, in the final analysis, you still want to drink. Do you think so?
?”
I suddenly felt ashamed. She was right. I really wanted to drink today. But, as men, if we don’t drink when we are with friends, what’s the point?
Of course, it is impossible for me to say such words to her at this time. But what she just said really touched me. In any case, this is her true concern for me.
I reached out and hugged her gently, but she immediately broke away from me and said, "You smell like alcohol. You should go take a shower and rest early."
I was embarrassed for a moment and had no choice but to laugh at her and leave.
I knew in my heart that she actually used those words deliberately to remind me and warn me. I also drank wine at Secretary Dong’s house that night, and we ended up kissing.
No matter what, she did this for my own good. After I understood this in my heart, I no longer felt unhappy. (To be continued)