In fact, the reason why many things in the world become intractable diseases is not that there are no solutions, but that the party responsible is unwilling to solve them.
Just like the situation where things always fall into the free soup bucket. Just send a dedicated person to be responsible for filling the soup, and the problem can be completely solved.
But this will cause trouble in the canteen. There are more than 2,000 people in the factory, who is willing to do such a hard job?
I am afraid that people are willing to suffer losses and suffer some grievances only for their own family members.
For example, Shui Qing, who accepted Hong Yanwu's suggestion, took Shui Xiaoying back to Furuli after get off work that day. She was fully mentally prepared and even bought some of Aunt Shui's favorite foods to cope with the situation. The mother sneered or ignored her.
It's just that she didn't expect that the meeting scene was completely different from what she expected. There was no need to say anything. In the courtyard, Shui Xiaoying ran away like a wild horse and said "Grandma", which thawed her mother's preparedness and tried her best.
Want to show indifference.
No one believed it when he said it. Looking at Shui Xiaoying, Aunt Shui's caressing eyes immediately overflowed with infinite love, and she suddenly became excited. She even shed tears in dissatisfaction.
The gentleness and kindness on her face was something that even Shui Qing had never seen before. The old lady immediately hugged the child who ran towards her.
Shui Xiaoying put her head in Aunt Shui's arms and didn't lift it up for a long time. She didn't want to let go of Aunt Shui's little hand, and then she opened her mouth and waited for Aunt Shui to peel off the paper.
Put candy in her mouth.
There was such a natural and cordial relationship between them, as if the two of them were blood relatives, not outsiders with no blood relationship at all.
This scene is extremely emotional to watch.
Shui Qing felt as if a cement mixing tank truck was starting to mix the mud in his heart, and it hurt a lot. It was like he was forcefully mixing things that should not be fused together. He couldn't tell whether he was surprised or not.
, pain, warmth, or any other feeling, it just makes people want to cry inexplicably.
"Mom, I was wrong. It's not easy for you to take Xiaoying with you. I really... really shouldn't be angry with you..."
This unspeakable sentence was even more effective. After Aunt Shui's body trembled, the door of the house was opened to Shui Qing without any conditions.
Yes, facts have proven that no matter how difficult it is to be wronged or how great the resentment is, as long as the family understands each other, it can dissipate without a trace.
What is a relative? This is a relative.
Shui Qing was very lucky to have Hong Yanwu to advise her, because life at home had indeed become smoother.
After listening to Hong Yanwu's idea, both Aunt Shui and Shui Xiaoying were happy to know that they would only need to go to the nursery for half a day. Aunt Shui became energetic again, and Shui Xiaoying became peaceful again when she went to the nursery.
Not long after, the little guy not only stopped crying, but also started to have his own good friends, began to integrate into the nursery group, and learned to follow the rules.
Even though Aunt Shui gets annoyed when she hears Shui Xiaoying singing the modern children's songs she learned in the nursery every day after returning home, she always has to ask Shui Xiaoying to sing the traditional songs she taught instead. She always says with a look of disdain, "Nursery
What can I teach you! Grandma knows as much as it does!"
But there is no doubt that through this incident, Aunt Shui and Shui Xiaoying, the older one and the younger one, have become closer and closer since then.
For example, as soon as Aunt Shui took out a pot of bean sprouts, Shui Xiaoying ran over and moved a small stool under her grandma's buttocks with her unique foresight, and then came to help pinch the roots.
Aunt Shui asked Shui Xiaoying to sing a song. She sang, "Pull the big saw, pull the big saw, grandma's house, sing a big show. Pick up the daughter, invite the son-in-law, and the granddaughter will also go. She won't let her go, she thumps
Fart...
Shui Xiaoying followed and said, "Grandma, you can also sing one."
Aunt Shui sang, "Locust tree, locust tree, locust tree, set up a stage under the locust tree. All the other girls are here, but my girl hasn't come yet. As she talks, she comes..."
If Shui Qing or Shui Lian happens to come in at this time, the whole family will laugh together.
The same goes for sleeping at night. The daily routine is that Shui Qing is responsible for cleaning Shui Xiaoying, and then Aunt Shui is responsible for being intimate with the child and coaxing her to sleep.
First, we have to play a nursery rhyme game starting from the thumb to the forehead, saying and singing.
"Big thumb, second thumb, third middle finger, four kings, small cowherd, cowherd, arm and wrist, water carrier, eating bowl, sesame oil jar, two lamps, small cattail leaf fan, and clothes hook
Son, there is also a Tianling Gai'er."
Then the child giggled and had to let Aunt Shui tell a story.
Aunt Shui told Shui Xiaoying the story "Zhu Bajie Carrying His Wife Back" that he could never finish and would never tire of.
"...Once upon a time, there was a eldest girl in Gaolaozhuang. She was so pretty that everyone loved her. On the mountain opposite Gaolaozhuang, there was a "Yunzhan Cave" in which lived a fat-headed and big-eared girl.
The lazy Zhu Bajie has fallen in love with this older girl..."
Yes, although these children's songs and stories that have been handed down since the Ming and Qing Dynasties are indeed no more beautiful, progressive, and educational than those taught in nurseries.
But they have always accompanied generations of Beijing children to grow up. Even if people grow old, these things will never grow up.
Only when they are sung in Beijing dialect can they be so lively and moving, can they so twitch people's heartstrings and hit the softest part of people's hearts.
It may seem useless, but it is actually useful. The biggest function of these things is to perfect people's emotions, carry people's memories, and always retain a feeling of home and a piece of childhood innocence...
But having said that, things in the world never seem to be perfect and everyone is satisfied.
Although Hong Yanwu helped Shui Qing solve a series of big troubles. From then on, he and Chen Liquan picked up and dropped off the children for the Shui family on time every day, coaxed the children, entertained the children, and bought snacks and toys for the children.
But there was another person who was extremely dissatisfied with this matter, and that was Shui Lan, who never went home very often.
This girl has not had a good impression of Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan since she was a child, and she still doesn't regard them as good people.
The day she came back, she chatted with her mother and sister, and learned about the recent events at home. She didn't show much joy for Shui Qing, but said that they must have bad intentions.
If they say this is a good deal, they may be planning something against the family. Let the family members have less to do with them.
Not to mention that the water was clear this time, even Aunt Shui couldn't bear to listen. Both of them said that Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan had helped them so much, and it was really hard work now. There was hard work without credit, and people said that behind their backs.
Not suitable.
Shui Lan added, "Those two are reform-through-labor prisoners, and our family is full of grown-up girls. They come and go like this every day, and there are good things to say and bad things to say. Why don't you think about your reputation? Besides, can bad people see it? That's okay.
No matter how bad you do, you always hide it, do you understand?"
Huh? These few sentences involve reputation, but they are the ultimate weapon. They have captured Aunt Shui again.
Aunt Shui is a person who has no backbone. As soon as her ears are soft, she takes another turn. She discusses with Shui Qing on the spot and says that if she doesn't want to pick up the children, she won't ask Hong Yanwu and the others. She might as well ask Shui Gengsheng to ride a bicycle every day.
alright.
Shui Qingqi couldn't help but start angrily arguing again. But then when she thought about the principles Hong Yanwu taught her, she felt that arguing would only make things worse, so she suppressed her anger.
I also tolerated it until Shui Lan went back to school, and then I started doing Aunt Shui's ideological work.
"People are not afraid of crooked shadows, and I am not afraid. It is not easy for others to gossip. Have you forgotten how the neighbors spread gossip about me? At that time, our family did not associate with Xiao Wu and others, and there was a neighborhood committee to testify. But again
How about it? On the contrary, it was Xiao Wu and the others who helped us quell the rumors. What happened in my university is still happening right before my eyes, and the same is true."
"Mom, we have to judge people by their actions. Don't listen to wind or rain. Think about it for yourself, from the earliest days of sending things, to later applying for breast milk, applying for household registration, and then applying for certificates for me to find a job, to today when I send my child home.
Family. There is nothing that people don’t do without asking for anything. Xiaowu and Quanzi have helped us so much, but they haven’t asked for anything."
"Aren't people like them better than those who borrow something and talk about it every day? Aren't they more trustworthy than those who gossip behind our family every day? We can't accept so many benefits from others, and now we are still
On the other hand, be on guard against other people’s principles, right? Isn’t this a screw-up of things? It’s so hurtful to use people to go forward and not use people to go behind. Next time we encounter difficulties, who else is willing to help us?”
"Think about it again, Shui Lan doesn't come home even once a month. What does she know? You just listen to her and put my dad on task at noon every day. Would my dad be happy with that? Shui Lan knows how little she knows.
How are Wu and Quanzi doing now? Not only are they two master chefs with a fifth-level salary in the cafeteria, but they are also on the honor roll of their workplace, and they will be "outstanding workers" by the end of the year. What's more, they are still friends with Yang Weifan, and the policemen who filmed with us are also
The relationship is good. How can such a person be a bad person? It’s not that you don’t know that no one in the neighborhood speaks ill of Xiaowu and Quanzi behind their backs. Why should we do this?"
Aunt Shui felt calm again. She was quite embarrassed to explain.
"Qing'er, actually I don't doubt anything. The key is that I feel that neither Xiaowu nor Quanzi has a partner right now. If you're not afraid of 10,000, just be afraid of the worst. Your sister is a bureau chief, so we're just pointing our fingers at her.
As long as Xiaowu and Quanzi don't worry about it, we have nothing to worry about..."
Shuiqing couldn't help but sigh again.
"Mom, you are really self-righteous. To be honest, if I were a man, I wouldn't want Shuilan. I have a bad temper, don't know how to do anything, and like to give blind instructions. How can I marry him and become the Queen Mother?
Do you want to provide it?"
Of course, Aunt Shui didn't like to hear it. And she was also quick-witted. If she couldn't tell Shui Qing, she would bring up another issue.
"Qing'er, let's not talk about your sister. I want to talk about you. The boss is old and now has a job. Shouldn't you think about your own affairs? How many college students are there in your unit?
?Are there any cadres of the same age? Hey, I heard that your factory is building its own employee building. It is definitely more likely that the two employees will get a shared apartment. You should hurry up. Your mother has never lived in a unit.