That night, his uncle mentioned this matter to his aunt, and at that time, Already Le finally took care of his child, watching him grow day by day, looking forward to him becoming the little princess in his mind.
The matron of the house really didn't pay too much attention to this matter.
After all, considering their family background, it is not particularly difficult to support a child to study, not to mention that this is a girl. She does not need to take the imperial examination. She only needs to be able to read and learn words, and to know the words and understand them by herself.
After reading the book, there won’t be too many problems. During this period, it will take about
It will take two or three years, and it is not too difficult to find a wife with a very average level of knowledge. Fortunately, the girl is still young, so she can just find a husband at random, and there is no need to worry about finding that one.
Raising a female wife who can read and write has already reduced the price a lot.
Just find an older scholar among those poor scholars who have landed or have given up the imperial examination, and come back to teach this little girl. And because this kind of person is older and does not have any
There are other ways out, so the prices are often cheaper than those of really young masters, so after calculating the cost, you can save a lot.
It can be said that the head matron has indeed managed the backyard very well. At least he has chosen masters for his sons to educate them, so he is very familiar with these things. For him, it only takes one or two periods.
He had already calculated clearly how much it would cost and whether they could afford it, which was a drop in the bucket for them, so he nodded quickly.
It's just that after she promised her husband, the lady seems to have blurred her face when she looks back on that girl. The things he once did and the things that once aroused her strong disgust have also faded a lot.
So now when he talks about this child, he feels a little bit pitiful. After all, not being able to live with his biological parents at such a young age is a very pitiful thing.
Of course, the husband didn’t feel like saying anything directly and lazily. I think your opinion of him a few years ago was wrong. On such a topic that definitely loses points, he just said, well, it’s not easy for him either.
He left his parents at a young age. Even if we, as uncles and aunts, couldn't take better care of him, our biological parents couldn't, so my sister thought of asking him if he needed anything.
This answer really touched the motherly feeling of the lady in charge. Indeed, he nodded. This child is indeed very pitiful. Our eldest brother and sister-in-law are also too partial. Now the little one is here
They grew up and were raised to be very squeamish, and they can't stand what others say. Anyway, I will not educate my daughter in this way. Although daughters need to be educated, they must also have teaching rules.
Unlike the little girl who has never returned home since being sent away by her biological parents, and no one can even pass it on to him, and there is no information about her native family, his uncles and aunts know very well that since he
After the eldest brother and sister-in-law gave the child to their family to raise, it can be said that the couple devoted their whole heart and soul to their little daughter.
This aunt actually disapproved of the behavior of the couple from the bottom of her heart, especially his sister-in-law, who originally seemed to be a well-educated and reasonable person. She could understand many things clearly through talking to him, but who knew that since her birth?
After giving birth to the child, it seems that I have never regained my sanity.
Whether it was the way he treated the two children with such huge differences before, or the fact that he simply gave his daughter to them to raise, no matter from any aspect, his sister-in-law's approach was unable to make this child happy.
I got some recognition from my aunt.
He himself has given birth to three children, all of whom are sons. In his eyes, these three children are equally important, so his preferences and preferences for them must be different, but no matter what, they are all his own children.
The palms and backs of the hands are their own hands. Even though there are inevitably some differences in how they are treated, the uncle and aunt try their best to be fair. It is normal to have preferences, but it does not hinder them.
Show each child your love for them.
It is natural for children to have competition. After all, everyone looks forward to getting more love from their parents. But no matter what, in fact, this all fluctuates within a range of qualified and full marks. He can say that for three
Although the children have different loves, the gap is not too big. In his opinion, only in this way can the situation between the children be stabilized. In his opinion, if you have excessive preference for a child, it will not be the same for him or the parents.
Very good thing.
Isn't this what his eldest brother and sister-in-law are like in front of them? From the time the two children were born, all the attention of the couple seems to be focused on the little one and the little daughter. Of course, everyone can understand this situation at the beginning. After all,
The little daughter does look like she might not have passed away at any time.
It seems that for a child who is frequently on the verge of death, it is natural to receive more care. However, as the child grows older and has a sense of autonomy, the attitude of the couple has not improved at all.
, but it got worse and worse, and it became a little unbearable.
After all, in infancy, even though children can reflect the attitude of others around them towards them, their sense of autonomy is not that strong. In their consciousness, survival may be the only issue that needs to be considered. As long as they live, they will get it.
If you take good care of them, they won't cry, but after they gain self-awareness and they can clearly understand the differences between themselves and others, you should pay attention to your attitude towards them.
Obviously, this couple feels that their eldest daughter seems to have been stuck in the infancy. As long as they feed him, give him clothes to wear, and not freeze and starve him, they can keep him alive. It seems that the child has no other requirements. This is simply
It's an incredible thing. In his eyes, only the little daughter's changes day by day, the slightest fluctuation of the body can attract their attention, while in their hearts, the eldest daughter seems to be dispensable.
existence, anyway, as long as she has enough material foundation.