Chapter 1550: Tribute to mothers who became housewives
Controversy about "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World" still exists.
Yao Tong is one of them.
She went to see the movie with her boyfriend, but after watching it, she looked very upset.
After returning home, I started complaining immediately.
“I originally heard that this movie was very good-looking and touching, and it was directed by a dog. It was not a tear-jerker, but I went to watch it with the idea that I wanted to cry and vent my emotions.
But I didn’t cry during most of the movie. Yes, I really didn’t cry!
I just felt very depressed and dull, and I couldn't help but skip the previous steps. They all ignored my mother until I finally learned the truth and burst into tears and changed my past.
Many people may be substituted for their children, and they feel very moved when thinking of their mothers’ contributions. It’s difficult for me to substitute, I can only be substituted for my mother. Why, why, why should a person spend his whole life dedicating to others, why should she die?
Not long ago, you began to show your love for her. Why should she use her own life to teach you to grow? Why?
Although it was indeed tear-jerking at the end and I couldn't help but cry. However, this movie is not a heartwarming movie for my age and experience. It can be said to be an educational movie. Love yourself more. Women are not born to be dedicated.
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It's not that this movie is bad, on the contrary, I think it's very good. But for many people watching this movie from the perspective of their children, I am from the perspective of a mother. If I am needed to be like this mother in the future,
I will never want to get married!"
In fact, after the movie was released, it did cause a little controversy.
That is, some good fans joked on the Internet: "The director of "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World" is not so kind. This is to make it clear that everyone should not get married or have children. Otherwise, you see, in the movie
Mother is your future!"
In fact, today is different from the past. People no longer like to rush to marry their children like the previous generation.
Due to various reasons, such as the bride price being too high, the financial pressure of raising children after marriage, etc., etc., more and more people are not getting married.
Although "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World" is said to be a joke by netizens, I have to say that it does have some truth to it.
Of course, it also brings more attention to housewives who have been ignored or ignored.
"Is there the most beautiful parting in the world? No matter how much growth this kind of parting brings to you, what you lose will always become a scar in your heart. My dear, cherish it from now on. The housewife who has been dedicated and who loves her family
I love my younger brother and he is devoted to everyone around him, and he is satisfied because of it. However, such a good person has to die and leave the family he loves so much. This movie makes me feel even more that we are born because of the people we love.
Exist, be needed, depend on and be loved, because you make your home warmer."
"Time flies by, and I don't realize until it's too late that there are still so many regrets and love that I haven't used up. Life is a long farewell. I only wish I had been treated tenderly by this world. Maybe life is like this, happiness comes again and again.
The gatherings are mixed with sad partings again and again. In hiking life, the time on the road is your best time. But it is not because I meet you in the best time, but because meeting you is the most beautiful time.
Time.”
Of course, the overall evaluation of this movie is still touching.
"There is no particularly impressive plot in the film. It always talks about the trivial matters in life, which are so plain and simple, but also a little complicated and annoying. But isn't life like this? Sometimes it is full of hope, and sometimes it is full of warmth.
, sometimes there are worries and helplessness, but no matter what, life still has to go on. As a woman, the sick heroine is fragile, and she is also afraid of death and separation.
Many times, many of our directors always like to come up with some very special stories, but as everyone knows, the trivial things in life are plain and simple, and plainness is the truth.
A woman devotes her whole life to giving silently. When her life is gradually withdrawn, she awakens the awareness of family affection. The simplest details in life achieve the most ordinary and great love. The last sentence of the film "You can only know the beauty if you look closely, and you can appreciate it if you taste it for a long time."
"Lovely", I believe this is the highest praise for all mothers. Be kind to the loved ones around you, and remember the love of spring. "God cannot be omnipotent, so he created mothers." The old-fashioned story, the ordinary background, not
Although he is a beautiful actor, he couldn't stop crying after watching it late at night like this. He was overwhelmed by the emotions and details in the film and felt endless pain.
The mother in the film takes care of the family every day. She feeds her mother-in-law, who has Alzheimer's disease, and takes care of her. She urges her children to eat well and gives them secret nutritional drinks. The same goes for her husband, who puts on his tie and gives them instructions.
She also had to watch him go to work in front of the window. No one in her family had any sympathy for her painstaking efforts. The child always said, "I won't eat anymore, so I'll leave first." Her husband didn't worry about her pain when urinating, and just dismissed her.
Don't go to the hospital where you work for fear of embarrassment.
This kind of plot seems to be too much. Many people are upset about this mother and feel that it is not worth it!
I saw many comments from fans saying that this mother was too bitter.
But here, we might as well think about one more question: Is being a mother not painful?
The mother in the movie, her suffering, is actually experienced by many mothers in reality.
Family harmony and filial piety are what each of us longs for, but in reality, especially in today's society, are there really few mothers who experience this?
Children may not necessarily be as indifferent as in the movie, but ask yourself, many of our children who are working hard outside, how much time do they think of their mothers at home, or who hangs up the phone first every time they call their mothers?
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! If we are like this, how can we have the shame to say that the movie is too exaggerated?
In fact, it is really not an exaggeration at all. Most of the time, we are selfish. As children, we may work hard outside. When we are wronged, we will think of our mother. When we share joy, do we ever think of our old mother at home?
We have a lot of time to eat, chat, and go shopping with friends, but what if that person is our mother?
Some people say that the family members in the movie are all unqualified. Yes, they are indeed unqualified, but it cannot be said that their transformation in the mother's final period is not good!
On the contrary, as a mother, she doesn't have that much to ask for.
As a mother, she was strong and brave in planning the future for her children. As a wife and sister, she also deserved it. Especially her husband, who was moved by everything she did during the last period of her life.
I. Although the heroine left in the end, her shadow is everywhere in the house, and there are post-it notes she wrote. Life goes on, and love goes on. Destiny should not always let a person leave. Come on.
To awaken a group of fallen people, happiness cannot always be based on suffering.
In fact, every character in the movie has a very deep portrayal of human nature. When the mother and her son said goodbye for the last time, they asked him to call him "Mom". Isn't it just because of this call that every mother has always given without asking for anything in return?
She gave the only ring on her body to her son. It can be seen that the mother is dedicated to her son and can give her everything to her son. She said goodbye to her daughter, "You are me, I am you." She likes the way her daughter looks.
The appearance of love. For her husband, it is love, the person she admires the most and serves her all her life. They let me see the final appearance of love. There is no TV series but we watch the sunset together, and drink tea that I don’t know the name of but it is very fragrant.
Death is always the biggest problem that everyone has to face, and we fragile humans cannot be calm after all. Maybe there are too few companions, the time is too short, and life is too cruel. Love your family with all your strength.
.In addition to being moved, it is also very valuable to bring me thinking. Film and television presentations always exaggerate the reality of ordinary family affection and love. We all long for that kind of emotion, but when we really face it, it is difficult to say a word of love. Mother
The family is about to leave, maximizing the family affection. The husband who was originally indifferent to his wife began to want to please her. His son, who had repeated his studies for three years, began to work hard. His daughter, who was having love problems, was afraid that she would not have her mother in the future.
The younger brother who looked like his sister's enemy began to treat her kindly.
She always speaks softly to each family member, cares about them, pays attention to all their situations, and is willing to be the support behind each of them and protect them. Her life is only for the happiness of her relatives. She never enjoys or is happy.
, harvesting true love in the last period of life. The heroine will never have the opportunity to roll with her husband in the snow, pick up mushrooms under the tree, and hear her husband talk about happy love. People always start to cherish when they are about to lose,
For example, life, time, and love. For some people, we always feel that they are always there, so there is no need to pay more attention to them. For relationships that are not reliable and still need to be strengthened, we can take them seriously and even devote our whole body and soul to them."
Because of this movie, there were some thoughts and discussions on the Internet, which made Li Yi feel very happy.
There is a topic raised by a netizen.
"How long has it been since you last had a meal out with your mother?"
The answer below makes people sigh.
"I remember the last time I went out to eat with my mother, it was still in high school. I never thought about this problem. My mother usually cooks and eats together at home, so I really haven't thought about it! Now that I think about it, it's really
very......"
"I just ate out with my mother last week! I go shopping and eating with my mother every week, hehe!"
"The one upstairs is so good! I suddenly felt extremely guilty. It suddenly occurred to me that apart from occasionally having a meal with my mother at home, I had never eaten out with my mother!"
"I don't eat out with my mother because she always says that eating outside is unhygienic and contains a lot of MSG seasonings, which is unhealthy! However, despite this, I will still go home to accompany my mother often!"
Most people said that they had not eaten or chatted with their mothers for a long time.
Of course, some people do very well!
Another topic is: "When was the last time you went shopping with your mother?"
This is obviously a question for my daughter.
But there are also some sons who answer this question.
"Going shopping? When I was a kid, my mother would go shopping with me, which was what I looked forward to the most. But as I grow older, I almost rarely go shopping with my mother!"
"After you started working, you never went shopping with your mother again, right?"
"The last time I went shopping was a few years ago. Maybe it was because of the generation gap. Mom always felt that things outside were too expensive!"
"Does it count to go shopping online with my mother?"
"Ever since I taught my mother to buy things online, I no longer dare to go shopping with her, because the more she goes shopping, the greater her desire to shop online. She has to buy a lot of things every time. I am really speechless!"
"Shopping? Never!"
"Before watching the movie, I never thought about this problem, but after watching it, I have already made an appointment with my mother to go shopping tomorrow!"
Wait, wait, although such a reminder may only last for a while for many people, in Li Yi's opinion, it is enough.
Just like a netizen said: "Tell yourself to cherish the people in front of you. How can you be beautiful when you know you are leaving?"
It is enough if a movie can make some people feel something, think something, think of their mother, make a phone call, ask their mother to have a meal together, or go shopping together.
After all, a movie is still a movie!
The rating of "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World" on the popular film review website is not very high, at least among Li Yi's many movies, it is not even ranked high.
However, this movie appeared in this era. According to the words of a netizen: "It is really appropriate for a movie like this to appear in this era!"
Yes, so appropriate!
In today's society, the pace of life is getting faster and faster, and the pressure of life is getting higher and higher.
And this often becomes the biggest excuse and reason for children and husbands to neglect their families, mothers and wives.
Housewives are often ignored in the eyes and hearts of many people, and they feel that they only know how to be careless and busy with small things.
However, one question is ignored, that is, do they really become housewives voluntarily most of the time?
Which housewife, when she was young, never dreamed of a life after marriage? But when you think about it, it is definitely not what is described and shown in the movies.
They also think about living for themselves, thinking about when to go out to have fun with their girlfriends, and thinking about doing what they want to do.
But gradually, these things, these former longings and dreams were delayed by various things.
It may be children, it may be elders, it may be husbands, but it is not themselves!
Everyone always says that women should have their own careers, but things often backfire. Which is more important, family or career? This is a clear question that is difficult to distinguish.
Only when it is specific can each individual have his or her own answer!
