Ji Meilan laughed: "Yes, it's very inappropriate."
"Although that is your mother, whether it is your parents or grandparents, everything they say may not be right. Yanbao must learn to make his own judgment. If there is something that makes you particularly uncomfortable or feels wrong,
, it must be raised as soon as possible.”
Seeing that Qianyan listened, Ji Meilan was very happy.
He is such a good boy and learns everything quickly.
Privately, Ji Meilan called Ning Weiwei over.
"I think we should communicate about Yanbao's education methods." Ji Meilan said straight to the point. Seeing Ning Weiwei's face change visibly, she shook her head inwardly, "I heard that you asked Yanbao to practice two more pieces of music in the past two days.
, and you want her to practice dancing?"
Ning Weiwei clenched her fists and whispered: "Yanyan is very good at this. There will be a banquet soon. I just want her to perform better and not embarrass the Meng family."
"Xiao Ning, you should be clear. Yanbao is the granddaughter of my Meng family and she is still a child. On such an occasion, she is the host of the banquet. Others will find it very strange if the host performs talents at the banquet.
Strange, this does not fit the image of the master."
Since Ning Weiwei is the biological mother of her precious granddaughter, Ji Meilan uses many of her words more euphemistically to give the other party face.
However, she would not have thought that in Ning Weiwei's eyes, this would be a sign of displeasure and disgust towards her, and she was deliberately making things difficult for her in this matter.
"Leaving this matter aside, have you ever asked Yanbao if she doesn't like piano and dancing?" Ji Meilan felt that it was still necessary to let Ning Weiwei know her Yanbao's inner thoughts.
Seeing Ning Weiwei's stunned look, she shook her head slightly, thinking that Ning Weiwei's mother was confused and incompetent.
Ji Meilan also called Qian Yan, and in front of Ning Weiwei, asked her again about her preferences for musical instruments and dancing.
Qian Yan glanced at Ning Weiwei, and Ji Meilan said: "Yan Bao must learn to express his inner thoughts. If you hide your thoughts, we won't know whether you like it or not. To me, your grandfather, and your father
Mom, you can tell me directly. We are the closest people to you. We hide our thoughts. We don’t know what you like. If we force our preferences on you, it will cause harm to you. We all like Yan.
Bao, I don’t want Yan Bao to be harmed.”
Even if Ning Weiwei felt aggrieved, she couldn't fault Ji Meilan's words.
But this is more like Ji Meilan satirizing her failure in education and not even being able to figure out her daughter's true inner thoughts.
"Mom, I don't like musical instruments and dancing." Qian Yan said.
When she said this, she personally had no emotions, but the original owner in the wishing space was different.
As soon as he said these words, the original owner's eyes were already red and tears could not help rolling down.
When she was a child, because she wanted to make Ning Weiwei happy, she would learn things she didn't like every day. She gritted her teeth and persisted, for fear of making Ning Weiwei sad.
Qian Yan's words could be regarded as saying what she wanted to say most to Ning Weiwei.
Sure enough, she still cared, even though she was more resentful towards Ning Weiwei, her biological mother, she had really longed to express her inner thoughts to her countless times.
When I was a child, I didn't want to make Ning Weiwei sad, so I didn't say anything.
Later, she had a younger brother, and she was so extreme that she didn't even want to talk about it.
Later, Ning Weiwei saw that she was defensive and hated the iron.
This chapter has been completed!