The checkpoint was passed and the gate was in sight. The wedding team continued to move forward, but before entering, the team stopped at the gate.
It's not that there are still people who have problems, but there is a process to go through when entering this gate. This is an important etiquette in weddings. This process can be summed up in one sentence, three questions and three answers. The woman asks and the man answers.
At this time, at the gate, a kind-faced old man stood there, looking at the wedding procession, bowing his hands and saying, "May I ask where our guests are coming from?"
This is the first question. The question is of course not where the wedding team came from, but why it came.
A middle-aged man with an elegant face also walked out of the welcoming procession. He was a very famous scholar in Xinlin County. He had never been an official, but he had the title of Jinshi. He was invited by the Lin family to answer guests at the door.
After the same courtesy, the middle-aged man used his hands and mouth together. Every word he said was accompanied by an action, such as raising his hand to make a lift, or giving a thumbs up. Every action was very elegant and graceful.
He smiled and said: "That's a good question from your noble family. We have a reason for coming here. Let me take my time to explain. I heard that there is a daughter in the family. I am waiting to find a good match in my boudoir. I have a beautiful face and a hibiscus. I use my hands skillfully."
Competing talents with needles, playing chess, calligraphy and painting, excelling in all kinds of poems, lyrics and songs, and praising others and dealings with others. She is surrounded by pots and pans all over the hall. Especially her filial piety touches the world, and her kindness comes from her true heart. Where can I find such a good girl? I am lucky to come here.
Still alone, the Lin family has a son named Ye Xing, who is also a good person. Hearing about this girl, I am really moved. I miss her every night and have no sleep. I miss my tea every day. I am asked to come here as a lobbyist to ask for a good job.
Marriage, I hope your house will give up your love and make a good marriage."
This was the answer to the first question. The purpose of the visit was clearly stated in a tonal tone, which made people feel happy. A group of spectators around them couldn't help but shout "good".
Not everyone can be an answerer, even if you don't have eloquence. Although it's just a process, if you don't answer well, it will make people feel uncomfortable.
After hearing the answer, the smile on the face of the old man standing at the door became thicker, and he was obviously very satisfied. Then he nodded with a clear face, expressing that he understood their purpose, and then asked the second question, "My lady."
The treasure in the palm of your hand, feeding you with porridge and rice, is really the dearest thing to your parents, and it is natural for a girl to get married, so how can you see that the guest is sincere?"
Faced with this second question, the middle-aged man immediately bowed again, and then replied eloquently: "Three matchmakers and six hires are not enough. Relatives and friends welcome the new year together. It shows that this is sincerity, why not become a family?"
Although the answer to the second question is short in words, it explains what is most important to people in this era. Three matchmakers and six beauties marry in a beautiful scenery, and there are relatives and friends accompanying each other looking forward to the marriage. It is not enough to reflect the sincerity.
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Although this kind of answer is not brilliant, it is the most simple and interesting one. It is not advocating, but it is plain and true. After hearing this, the old man at the door nodded with a smile on his face as a sign of approval.
Then he asked the third question, saying: "Sincerity is too rare. Good things come in pairs. I am happy to see them. However, I hope I can understand the hearts of my parents. It is too worrying for my daughter to leave the house. I am free from the influence of my parents at home. From now on, I have to live alone."
Reincarnation, how can we treat each other as if we were just passing through? How can we make people feel at ease if I ask?"
The middle-aged man here immediately replied: "I hope your house will be relieved. The Lin family has Tian Qianqing of its own, and there are many servants. The relatives and friends in the high hall are sensible. If the lady of your house comes in, she will be rich and noble from now on, and the main hall will be in good shape."
Sitting upright, you are actually the hostess of the house, and you will have no worries for the rest of your life. How can such a noble house be at ease?"
"Okay, okay, haha, peace of mind, peace of mind, please." After hearing the answer, the old man said three good words in a row, and after three questions and three answers, he cheerfully made a gesture of please.
This is just a process, it is for the people around to see. Of course, after the process is completed, they must be released. Shen Qingrou married the Lin family and it was a matchmaker. After leaving, she became the mistress of the Lin family. She can make the decision. Shen Qingrou's mother's family also has Shen Qingrou.
With your family supported, you won’t be afraid of being wronged in the future, so what else do you have to worry about?
In this way, the welcoming team can actually enter the courtyard. However, they do not go to where the bride is at the first time. Instead, they eat at the banquet first. After all, only after eating and drinking enough can they have the strength to take the bride back. In short, it is a good reception.
Warm hospitality.
During the banquet, Lin Yexing, as the groom's official, had to contact the Shen family to explain some procedures, but that had nothing to do with Yunjing and the other groomsmen. It was a family matter, and it was not easy for outsiders to get involved.
There are seniors who are familiar with the process to guide you. When the process is completed, you go to the boudoir to lead the bride before it is the best man's turn to come on stage.
Yunjing Wang Bolin, Su Xiaoye and others gathered at a table, eating and drinking, waiting for the time to come.
Chen Yijian, who had fully recovered, looked at Yun Jing and couldn't help but said: "Ah Jing, you are too strong. Before, several people outside the door were quickly defeated when they came on stage. But as soon as you stood out, the other side didn't even bother to say anything unnecessary."
If you just let me go immediately, you are a member of the Shen family, and they don’t even dare to fight with you. It really earns a lot of face for the wedding team."
When he said this, a trace of envy flashed in Chen Yijian's eyes. He knew that he was not qualified to have anything to do with a behemoth like the Shen family. If he could be like Yunjing and just show up, he would be given face by others, especially if he was...
To be a behemoth like the Shen family can be said to be his lifelong pursuit, but it is just a pursuit. Throughout his life, he doesn't know if he can reach that level.
"It's not that you're giving me face, I'm not as powerful as you think. In fact, you're giving Lin Yexing face. After all, he's marrying the daughter of the Shen family. It's such a happy event. It's just fun. There's no need to be so tense.
I just stepped out to coincide with the meeting, and others were just walking down the slope, so I can’t really delay the wedding,” Yunjing shook his head and smiled.
Yun Jing can still tell when to say what kind of words. At this time, you need to be as indifferent as possible to avoid overestimating the guest, and there is no need to be high-key in front of friends, otherwise it will be boring.
But Chen Yijian still said: "That's what I said, but if you hadn't stepped forward, A Jing, I'm afraid it wouldn't have been so smooth to get close to this door."
"Okay, let's not talk about this. I want to say that Brother Qingzhu is getting married. It's a lively and lively wedding, don't you envy it? When will they get married and treat us to a banquet?" Yunjing changed the subject and looked at him and asked.
Asking him like this is to change the subject. Secondly, Yunjing also wants to lead Chen Yijian to the right path without leaving any trace. After all, if he has worries after marrying a wife, he will have scruples if he thinks about the unstable life in the world.
Already.
Chen Yijian's attention was decisively diverted, he shook his head and smiled and said: "I, let's talk about it, after all, I haven't made any achievements now, how can I get a family? As a man, his ambitions are all over the world, and the love of his children is secondary."
"That's because swordsman, you don't know the beauty of women. Tsk, if you had experienced it, you wouldn't think so." Wang Bolin interjected. After all, Su Xiaoye was on the side and he didn't have the nerve to go in and start talking about porn.
Zhou Jintai said contemptuously from the side: "I really don't know what's so good about women. They can't eat them, but they still have delicious food."
"How do you know women can't eat it?" Wang Bolin winked.
Chen Yijian was immediately shocked and glared: "Lin Zi, you actually cannibalize people?"
"Bah, bah, bah, you know shit. I don't mean what you said about eating. Forget it, you don't understand what I'm telling you. We can't talk today," Wang Bolin rolled his eyes.
The topic of small talk suddenly disappeared.
Su Xiaoye, who was beside Yunjing, asked him in a low voice: "Brother Jing, what does Brother Lin mean when he says women can be eaten?"
"Ahem, little Ye Zi, you can't explain this kind of thing in just a few words. Anyway, you'll understand after we get married." Yunjing coughed dryly, thinking to himself that Wang Bolin, this bitch, is really bad at talking, how could he make such a dirty joke?
Say it in front of the girl.
Su Xiaoye nodded and stopped asking. Anyway, what I heard from Yun Jing was right, but why do we need to get married before we can understand how girls eat?
During the banquet, the Shen family also sent representatives to toast the bride-to-be and express their enthusiasm for the guests. The etiquette was impeccable.
After eating and drinking, it’s almost time. Lin Yexing’s process has been completed. Next, it’s time to pick up the bride. You don’t need to think about it. If you want to go to the boudoir to pick up the bride, there will definitely be a door at the door.
There is a 'difficulty' to overcome. It is not that easy to take away the bride.
Speaking of which, the Shen family is quite interesting. They don’t do too much to make things difficult, and the normal three levels are meaningless, unlike some people who go through seven or eight levels of trouble, and even deliberately torment people. In that case, it is obviously
A big happy event might end up unhappy.
There is no surprise. There is a difficulty in front of the attic of the boudoir where the bride is. I want to bring the bride out, but this level is not possible.
Blocking the door was a group of pretty girls. Each one of them was fat and thin, which was eye-catching. Needless to say, these girls were almost all close friends of the bride Shen Qingrou. How could they not
Let's take this opportunity to have some fun.
They stopped in front of the door and laughed and entertained each other. At the same time, their next actions were not so 'friendly'. They first reached out to ask for the red envelope, otherwise the practice would pass them by.
Fortunately, Lin Yexing had been prepared and asked his servants to bring them trays one after another. Inside the trays were red envelopes containing money. It was just a matter of meaning. The amount of money in the red envelopes was secondary. Anyway, some girls stretched out their hands and stuffed red envelopes.
, try to use red envelopes to corrode their line of defense.
However, it would be nice if it were that simple. A group of girls took the red envelopes but refused to get out of the way.
One of the girls looked at Lin Yexing and his group of wedding team and said, "The bride is inside, but it's not easy for you to pick her up. We heard that my uncle is a scholar, so we won't embarrass you.
If you want to pick up the bride, it’s very simple. How about writing a poem that satisfies us? It’s not difficult, right?”
After hearing this, everyone looked at each other, what is a poem that you are satisfied with, and what kind of poem can satisfy you? Also, you girls look like heroines at first sight. You don't solve the problem of killing and killing, and you actually ask for it.
Poetry?
It is a routine operation for scholars to compose poems, but the problem is who can guarantee to produce a poem that satisfies them at the moment? The limericks are pretty much the same, and I don’t know if I can mess around with them at will, but I’m afraid limericks won’t work.
Everyone looked at me and I looked at you, and then everyone looked at Yun Jing.
The corners of Yunjing's mouth twitched and he said to himself, "Look at what I'm doing. I can't write poetry!"
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This chapter has been completed!