"Thank you for the reminder"
Teacher Zhou stared at Li Mu and said word by word, "I tell you, you'd better pray that this is a son in my belly, otherwise I will continue to give birth until I give birth to a son."
"..."
Li Mu laughed dumbly.
It seems that my wife has a strong obsession with her son and must give birth to one herself to be a happy mother with both children.
Although Li Mu didn't want a son, since his wife was so obsessed with her, he didn't express his thoughts.
About this.
There are still fundamental differences between men and women.
According to Teacher Zhou, if her husband is capable of raising her, it doesn’t matter if she has another child.
Anyway, my family has two houses. In the future, each of the two brothers will have one. The couple just need to save the money they earn now so that the two brothers can study and get married in the future.
This idea is correct.
But the reality is that as a woman, Teacher Zhou does not have to face the pressure brought by this society. The pressure of making money and raising two sons is all concentrated on Li Mu. Therefore, many things that seem light to her are a bit heavy for Li Mu.
Just as he thought, although his income is not low now.
If you can maintain this kind of income, you will have no problem raising three children.
Even when his two sons reached marriageable age, he still had the ability to prevent his two sons' marriage from being affected by issues such as betrothal gifts or RVs.
It's just that many things don't go as planned as people want. Once he no longer has a stable income, his two sons will become a big problem. Even though he has saved millions now, he will wait until he is in his teens or 20s.
Years from now, it’s still unclear what exactly one million will represent!?
This is not because Li Mu has negative thoughts.
But after experiencing some hardships, you will understand.
"If you don't make appropriate preparations before the storm comes, it will be a disaster for you."
This is just like many people who use all their family savings to buy a house, completely ignoring that they only have one or two thousand yuan left at home. Maybe the starting point is good. Buying a house is for a better life and for their children to go to better schools. There is nothing wrong with that.
, but one or two thousand is simply not enough to cope with any storm we face in life.
For example, unemployment.
For example, someone in the family is sick.
Once faced with such an emergency, it will really make the whole world unable to respond, and the earth and the earth will not respond.
How many men have been completely broken down because of something like this!?
Women can maintain longing for the future and have beautiful fantasies about the future, but men cannot. Men must make reasonable predictions about the future. They must weigh clearly before facing major decisions and understand whether they can bear the risks involved. Beyond that,
There is a limit, do you have the ability to get through it?
Because women can complain that men are worthless.
Men have no right to complain about their wives. The key is that once a man cannot get over that hurdle, he will be alone on the roof of the building.
This is reality rather than a fairy tale full of beautiful colors.
"What do you mean by not speaking? You are afraid"
Seeing that her husband was silent, Teacher Zhou said angrily, "Are you worried about how many daughters I will give you!?"
"If you have a few daughters, I really won't worry"
Li Mu smiled and replied, "After all, in modern society, the cost of raising three daughters combined is not as much as that of one son."
"Why can't we compare? Why don't we sign up for interest classes or go to college!?"
Teacher Zhou retorted, "Do you think it costs less to raise a daughter in modern society?"
"At least no house, no car, no betrothal gift"
Li Mu smiled and replied, "If I were more cruel, I could still make some money back. It's not much. I can always get my study money back, right?" If I were more soft-hearted, I could spend tens of thousands as a dowry for my daughter, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law would be grateful.
For the rest of my life, just like your parents, they spent one hundred thousand as a dowry. Now when I think of my father-in-law and mother-in-law, I feel that they are my biological parents."
"You..."
Teacher Zhou was angry for a while.
But after a moment, a smile suddenly appeared at the corner of his mouth, and he said, "When they get old, you have to take care of them for a while."
"You don't need to remind me"
Li Mu patted his chest and said with a serious face, "I'm telling you this, your father's future adult diapers will be changed by me, my son-in-law, and I won't let anyone take it from me."
"Cackle"
Teacher Zhou pursed his lips and chuckled a few times, and said, "I will remember what you say now. When the time comes, I hope you will do what you say."
"You can sign a deal"
Li Mu smiled.
As a man who has gone through two marriages and had two sets of father-in-law and mother-in-law, Li Mu definitely prefers the current Zhang Lan couple.
Not wanting a bride price is one thing.
And spending 100,000 yuan to accompany her means that she sincerely hopes that her daughter will live well.
Although many parents who want betrothal gifts also have this idea, they are all comparable. Whether you want it or not, whether you accompany it or not, the sensory effects it brings to the groom's family are obviously different, especially for the groom's family whose family conditions are average.
Just like Li Mu's brother-in-law's family, when his sister got married, Li Mu's parents didn't ask for a penny in bride price. Although they didn't pay tens of thousands to Li Hong as a dowry, they didn't ask his brother-in-law's family to buy a house or a car. When his brother-in-law married his sister,
The house only has two floors.
Don’t put pressure on your in-laws.
It’s enough to make my family grateful.
This was also the case with Li Mu's family. Before his sister opened her mouth, her father-in-law and mother-in-law volunteered 80,000 yuan.
Everyone has a conscience.
If Li Mu's parents had asked for a gift of more than 100,000 or 200,000 yuan at that time, maybe his brother-in-law's parents would have gritted their teeth and paid for it because of their son's marriage. But in the future, they would only have business contacts and stay away from each other, let alone
I just heard that my father-in-law’s medical expenses were not enough, so the old couple quietly went to the hospital’s billing hall to pay the medical expenses without mentioning it in front of anyone.
Some things are just that simple.
You will get the perfect answer if you compare yourself with others and think in their shoes. However, many people only care about the vested interests in front of them and don’t care at all whether other people can afford it. They also say things like "I raised such a big person..." and a series of other things to show that they are very important.
Hard work nonsense.
As a parent, you must first be clear.
What is the purpose of giving birth to a child by yourself!?
If you really feel it is hard, then don’t give birth. Since you choose to give birth, it means that you are willing to take on the child’s life and take the child’s happiness as the first criterion.
Forcing the in-laws to buy a house and a car and borrow so much foreign debt undoubtedly deviated from the original intention. So after Li Mu heard his wife talk about the provident fund to repay the mortgage tonight, he considered a problem. His provident fund helped his wife repay the loan. Then,
What will Teacher Zhou do with the provident fund he pays every month?
It seems that I can only buy a house.
Since we can only buy a house, it is better to save for more than ten years. With what he has saved, when little Si Ning grows up in the future, he can buy her a smaller house as a pre-marital property.
As a father, Li Mu has limited strength and cannot treat his son and daughter equally.
But he tried his best.
Other people's houses have the biggest eaves, but they are not as good as the umbrella in my daughter's hand.
"No touching"
At this time.
The bathroom room opens.
Ranran, who was wrapped in a bath towel, was carried out by Xiaoxiao. This damn girl held Ranran with one hand and touched his little friend with the other hand despite Ranran's struggle.
"Little"
Seeing this scene, Li Mu scolded, "Do you still look like a girl?"
"Hey!"
Xiaoxiao put Ranran on the sofa, rubbed his fingers, and sighed, "He is really a child. I don't know when my child will grow up!?"
Whoever's house this female gangster enters will be in trouble.
This chapter has been completed!