People will always be like this.
I like to stand at the highest point of thought and criticize the choices made by certain people.
As if you don’t do this for a while.
Just like I'm sorry for my identity, to put it bluntly, what others do has nothing to do with you. You haven't walked around in their shoes, nor have you been lying in a hospital bed enduring the physical and psychological pain.
So you can say whatever you want, and you can show your status as an elder however you want.
Li Mu used to think he could bear it.
Because as a junior, it’s hard to say too much, and it’s hard to do too much.
But Lingzhi's matter made him clearly understand.
When people come to this world, they cannot seek perfection for the sake of suffering.
The meaning of life.
Nor do we live for others.
If you want to say something, you might as well say it boldly. Don’t worry too much about what you want to do, just do it bravely.
Because.
People are independent individuals, not parasites living for others.
"Li Mu"
Hear Li Mu’s words.
Uncle Xu Chuan immediately scolded him and said, "Do you still know etiquette!?"
"Uncle"
Li Mu spoke calmly and said, "After working hard in society for so many years, I definitely know more etiquette than you do, but when we talk about things, it's best to put aside the class hierarchy of elders and juniors. The focus of the issue now is that grandpa asked me to
Call Cousin Weijun and persuade him to come back and live a good life with his cousin. I know my grandpa has good intentions, but in this society, good intentions cannot bring good results. Who can guarantee that when eldest brother comes back, his eldest sister-in-law will treat him well!?"
Speaking.
Li Mu pointed his finger at Wang Jie, who was sitting on the table, and said, "Sister-in-law, among all the people here, you are the only one who can guarantee this. I remember that when you married your eldest brother, you said you would always be good to him. What happened in the end?"
!? You personally chopped my eldest brother, causing him to stay in the hospital for more than a month. I don’t know whether it was my grandpa who asked me to call today, or someone said that my cousin has the best relationship with me and asked me to
After just a few words of advice, he will come back and deliberately asked my grandpa to call me. I don’t want to follow the answers to these things, nor do I want to delve into them, because there is no need. I just want to tell you what choice the eldest brother made, and what kind of choices he made when he came back.
No, I am not qualified to evaluate, let alone persuade. If you want to be a human being, you must first treat yourself as a human being."
This last sentence.
Li Mu said it was very serious.
There is absolutely no concern about the occasion or the environment.
Life requires experience, and you also need to decisively exclude unnecessary things.
Li Mu didn’t understand before.
But now I understand.
When it comes to relationships, if you can get along, just move around; if you can't, there's no need to move around.
Life is short.
There is no need to waste time on these.
Life is not a fairy tale, there is not so much romantic poetry, there is only selective rejection and breaking off.
In the final analysis.
No one can consider the problem from their own standpoint.
They stand too high.
It’s so tall that Li Mu doesn’t even understand why he’s standing so high!?
Mo Yan has this passage in "Late Bloomer": "The ugliness of human nature is that many people want to stand on the so-called moral high ground and hypocritically persuade those who have been hurt to be patient and generous."
Li Mu didn't think he was ugly before, because he thought it was a way to behave in the world.
But now.
He was disgusted.
"Li Mu, it's okay if you don't hit me, there's no need to curse"
Wang Jie said angrily.
"You think too much"
Li Mu shook his head and said, "I don't have such leisure."
"It's different now that you have money"
Li Mu's third uncle Jia Zheng said.
"It's just different for you, it's the same for other people who are nosy"
Li Mu hit back directly, saying, "If you want to be a good person, you must first learn to eat and shut up. Third uncle, you have learned less, and you will have to work harder in the future."
Teacher Zhou glances at her husband from time to time.
This year's Li Mu feels very different to her, how can I put it!?
Has strong aggressiveness.
To be honest, some of what her husband said today was really inappropriate and not very polite. She quietly tugged on Li Mu's down jacket to signal him not to say something so outrageous, but Li Mu patted the back of her hand. The meaning was very clear, and he knew it well.
Faced with this situation, Teacher Zhou had no choice but to eat his own food.
"Who do you think has learned less?"
Jia Zheng's face suddenly turned cold.
"Yo"
Li Mu smiled and said, "Don't put on a bad face. Use whatever skills you have. I remind you, before you do anything, weigh yourself first. Don't crush yourself to death if the weight is asymmetric."
, I can treat you and Third Aunt as elders, but it won’t necessarily matter if you come out of this yard, Third Aunt, are you right!?"
"Can't you even eat?"
Grandpa Li Mu slammed the table and said, "If you don't want to eat, get back here."
Next.
No one spoke anymore.
After finishing the meal, Li Mu took Teacher Zhou and left.
Seeing him leave, her third aunt Xu Qin said angrily, "What's so great about it? Why not just be a small leader in an advertising company!" Fortunately, we are not civil servants. Otherwise, our old Xu family would not only not get much glory, but also all of us would be able to
looked down upon by him"
"Stop talking nonsense"
Xu Chuanqi said, "Can't you live your life well!?"
"Brother, you saw it today. It's your nephew who doesn't give dad face. Can't I say a few words, he is a junior..."
"Just know the juniors"
Xu Chuanqi said, "He is a junior, but he still eats and drinks from your family. The last time your son and his wife had a conflict, it was Li Mu's money."
Actually.
Li Mu's actions today really exceeded his expectations.
It's a lie to say he's not angry, but what can he do? His nephew is so old, how can he slap him in front of his wife or something!?
On the way home.
Teacher Zhou looked at her husband, hesitant to speak.
"Do you think I went a little too far today!?"
Li Mu was the first to speak out.
"Yeah"
Teacher Zhou said, "After all, they are the elders"
"Haha"
Li Mu smiled and said, "I used to be like you, thinking that elders should be respected and loved, but now I find that the elders are a group of people who don't have much ability. They can't find a sense of presence in front of outsiders, so they can only gain presence on their own juniors."
People who like to impose their thoughts on younger generations, no matter whether it is right or wrong, as long as they feel that this is for the good of the younger generation, then their heart as an elder will be comforted, and in their eyes, since they have opened their minds
Mouth, as juniors, you have to listen. Not listening is unfilial, but they have never thought that what others have experienced is something they have never experienced, and the pain others endure is something they have never felt. Sometimes the elders
It is just a word. It does not mean that it can guide us juniors in the right direction. Instead, it adds countless troubles to our life. Take the matter of my cousin as an example. I can use various euphemistic words to refuse today.
But tomorrow they will still call me and ask me to persuade my cousin. If one of them doesn't work, just change to the other one. Anyway, there are many elders in the old Xu family. As long as I don't make this call, I still won't have a good impression in their hearts. In this case,
Why should I endure it!?"
Speaking.
Li Mu reached out to hold his wife's hand and said, "I have endured it for many years, and I don't want to endure it anymore."
This chapter has been completed!