In fact, Qin Muxue’s mentality is not uncommon in society.
As long as a woman thinks she is excellent, she will have this problem to some extent.
The difference is.
Most of the partners abandoned by women who feel good about themselves are not successful later on, so this kind of mentality will not cause much backlash.
But Li Mu is different.
He relied on his own efforts to buy a house and a car, and live the life Qin Muxue once wanted.
Especially when Qin Muxue saw today that the man she had left behind not only lived a better life than her, but would also have a new marriage.
Face this kind of thing.
It is reasonable for Qin Muxue to suddenly lose control of her emotions.
It's like a man chasing a woman for many years, but the woman never agreed. Later, the man had no choice but to give up and marry another woman. The woman couldn't stand it and went to the wedding venue to make a scene.
The reason is simple.
"If you pursue me, I don't have to accept it, but you can't marry anyone else, let alone live a better life than me."
Not to mention psychological abnormality.
It’s not even a pathological possessiveness.
It’s just a normal reaction from a woman who thinks she is excellent in all aspects.
"I now understand why you hit her that day"
Teacher Zhou pursed his lips and said softly, "You must have suffered a lot when meeting such a cruel and unreasonable woman, right?"
"Efforts of hardship?"
Li Mu was stunned for a moment, then smiled and said, "These are the bitter fruits I planted when I was young. Now I just taste them."
Go up the stairs.
The laughter of several children could be heard in his ears. They were probably the two daughters and one son of the family on the first floor playing around. Li Mu patted Teacher Zhou on the shoulder and said with a smile, "Teacher Zhou, you are wrong."
"What?"
Now that we have a one-year appointment with Li Mu.
Teacher Zhou also automatically ignored Li Mu's little tricks that were not taken advantage of. As long as he didn't go too far, Teacher Zhou felt that he could still accept it.
Because.
She is also trying to get to know the men around her.
Moreover, Teacher Zhou also noticed that after Li Mu patted her on the shoulder, the smile on the corner of his mouth actually became more secretive, as if he had taken advantage of her.
Not mature at all.
Turning his head slightly, Teacher Zhou asked doubtfully.
"Your understanding is too superficial. The essence of hardship is to focus on a certain goal for a long time. In this process, you need to give up entertainment life, give up ineffective social interactions, give up meaningless consumption, and the loneliness that is not understood in the process.
, its essence is a kind of self-control, self-control, persistence and the ability to think deeply, and Qin Muxue will never let me endure hardship, whether it was before or now, it will only make me feel tired and bored."
Li Mu explained with a smile.
"I seem to have heard this somewhere"
Teacher Zhou’s mouth slightly curled up and he said.
"From "Inamori Kazuo's Advice to Young People""
Li Mu does not hide his plagiarism at all.
After all, obtaining knowledge from books written by others and then applying this knowledge to life or career is the greatest respect for the author.
No writer would mind readers taking notes on the books they write.
No writer likes readers to feel sick and want to vomit after reading his book.
If so.
Li Mu hopes that this reader should go see a doctor. After all, painless abortion does not cost much now. Of course, if you are a man, you might as well consider getting a gastroscopy. If there is no problem, you can pay a little more attention to your diet in the future.
Because the body is your own, no matter how nauseated or nauseated you are, you can’t vomit it on the author.
In the final analysis.
From beginning to end, a book embodies an author's understanding and perception of life.
There are good ones.
Naturally, there are also disadvantages.
This is unavoidable. If you like it, you can read it several times. If you don't like it, you can leave quietly. After all, no matter whether you are poor or rich, you will leave quietly in your life. There is no exception.
If possible.
Why not come quietly from the beginning, and then leave quietly.
No need to wave your sleeves.
Because the fate between readers and authors is limited to words. Without the resonance of words, there should be a rational state of forgetting each other.
No goodbye.
No need to say goodbye.
Li Mu likes to read.
He also likes to buy physical books and read them. In the process, he will inevitably encounter books with no nutritional value. He will not scold the author, but will just put the books on the bookshelf to gather dust.
Because Li Mu believes that adults should have the cultivation and tolerance of adults.
After all, the world of words is huge and boundless, and there are thousands of ways to compose words.
In such a vast world.
What difference does it make if we see each other or not!?
Like it or don't like it, what's the difference!?
What's more, life is nothing more than: meeting again today and parting tomorrow, there is really no need to worry about it too much.
"You are honest"
Teacher Zhou covered his mouth and chuckled, saying.
Back home.
Li Mu took out a book from the bookshelf, made another cup of Longjing tea, and then walked into Teacher Zhou's house holding the tea cup.
Perhaps knowing that he would come, Teacher Zhou did not close the door.
Filling the watering can with water and wearing slippers, Teacher Zhou walked up to the balcony and watered the potted plants she raised. Then she mopped the house inside and out. After doing all this, Teacher Zhou stretched out her hand to open the screen window.<
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After.
She took out two apples and two pears from the refrigerator, cut them into small cubes, and didn't forget to insert a few toothpicks at the end.
"Eat!"
Placing the fruit plate in front of Li Mu, Teacher Zhou assigned some homework to little Sining and asked her to write slowly.
I’ve been busy for a while.
Teacher Zhou was able to relax.
He curled his legs and half leaned on the sofa, flipping through a book in his hand. Like Li Mu's professional advertising book, the book Teacher Zhou was flipping through was a thick volume of competition questions for primary school students.
How many children are we going to persecute!?
He leaned for a while.
It was estimated that Teacher Zhou’s legs were a little numb due to the bend, so he straightened them directly.
Li Mu looked down at the long leg that suddenly rested on his lap, smiled and shook his head, without saying anything, he just continued to read his book.
"Have you read "Meditations on Life"?"
Teacher Zhou stretched out his leg to kick Li Mu and asked.
"Yeah"
Li Mu thought for a moment and asked, "Do you want to talk about the passage in the marriage chapter?"
"Do you really know?"
Teacher Zhou sat up straight with an expression of amazement, but then leaned back to his original position and said, "Then tell me whether that statement makes sense?"
"No"
Li Mu didn't hesitate at all and replied directly, "How could marriage be wrong? The best destination for love is marriage, and if a man marries for life, he might as well stay single for the rest of his life."
Li Mu originally wanted to say, "It's better to buy an inflatable doll."
But after much hesitation, I chose another wording.
Li Mu doesn't remember the original sentences of the marriage chapter in "Meditations on Life" very clearly. He only remembers a few sentences, which seem to be "Marriage is misaligned from the beginning. Women marry souls and love, and men marry life, so there is no pain."
Marriage is a miracle. A good marriage does not necessarily include love, because love is lethal, and marriage must avoid things that are lethal."
This statement sounds very philosophical at first glance.
But upon careful analysis, it is not as insightful as Xu Jianhua’s occasional remarks.
What is marriage?
According to Li Mu's current understanding, marriage is a carrier.
It stores the process of a man and a woman getting to know each other, all the running-in and tolerance from like to love, and this carrier is precisely composed of a man and a woman.
This chapter has been completed!