Xu Jianhua is born in the 1970s.
Family planning was implemented in 1971, and it was only officially established as a basic national policy in 1982 and written into the Constitution. However, it was not strictly implemented in the first few years, which resulted in the generation born in the 1970s having more brothers and sisters.
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"How many brothers do you have!?"
While Li Mu was cooking, he asked curiously, "Why have I never heard you mention your brothers and sisters?"
"A slap"
Xu Jianhua spread his palms and said, "I am the fourth eldest brother in the family. I have three eldest brothers and a younger brother."
"Holy crap, five brothers!"
Li Mu said in shock.
Only now did Li Mu understand why Xu Jianhua’s resentment was so great.
So many brothers.
Even though the wedding gifts at that time were not as exaggerated as they are now, no matter what age you get married, you have to spend everything a family has.
And Xu Jianhua is the fourth child in the family.
When the three eldest brothers got married, they were afraid that they would have already emptied their family funds and borrowed all the foreign debts they could borrow.
It's his and Lao Wu's turn.
The mentality of his parents has probably changed to "If you have the ability, get married, if you don't have the ability, stay single for the rest of your life."
Xu Jianhua leaned on the sofa and said with a smile, "There's nothing to say. They live their lives and I live mine. Even if they have money, they won't spend it on me. If I have money, I won't spend it on them. As for my money, I won't spend it on them."
I don't care about these damn nieces and nephews. They don't have any special skills, but they play tricks very well. Seeing that I don't have children, they like to lick their faces and come close to me, pretending to be filial to my children.
I, Xu Jianhua, am different from others. If I were someone else, I would definitely choose someone I like and treat him better. When I get old, I will rely on him to take care of me until I die. I can’t. I would rather die at home alone or die at home without giving anything.
They have the opportunity. Every penny I make is because of what I have earned over the years. What qualifications do they have to get something for nothing? If you want money, just make it with your own hands. If you lick a face and talk to me, don't blame me for slapping you.
in their faces"
"What if they are not just doing it for money!?"
Li Mu asked with a smile.
"What do you think!?"
Xu Jianhua asked in reply, "I was more sensitive when I was poor and lacked love and concern. However, I couldn't receive a single caring call all year round. When I became less sensitive, I kept getting calls one after another, even from my brothers.
It is said that the warmth of a person's relationship is like a person's own knowledge of the warmth of drinking water. Almost twenty-one or two years ago, I fell in love with a woman and it was time to talk about marriage. But I was short of money, so I went to marry me.
As the married eldest brother, I thought to myself that the three of them would have to chip in 10,000 yuan for me! Guess what! They all said that the family had no money, and even advised me to work honestly and find a free son-in-law in the future.
Give it to me"
"You're a bit too much brother"
Li Mu commented.
"I used to think so too, but then I understood"
Xu Jianhua replied, "They are afraid that after they lend it to me, there will be a fifth child underneath. It is the most difficult for poor families to recite sutras, especially families with many brothers, so after my parents passed away, every Qingming Festival, in addition to sending some ghost coins, I
Give it to them, and also give them a dozen boxes of things that reduce the human birth rate. If you give birth to so many babies on the top, don’t give birth to them below. If you give birth to a child and you have no ability to raise it, you will make people suffer.”
"..."
Li Mu was speechless.
This was the first time he heard that someone burned that thing for his parents.
Xu Jianhua's behavior once again refreshed Li Mu's thinking.
"However, now that I think about it, there is indeed a problem with my thinking at the time."
Speaking.
Xu Jianhua took out his cigarette and saw the three children making noise in the living room. After thinking about it, he kicked the cigarette back and said, "It may be difficult to raise two, but if you have one, the couple can raise them no matter what. After all,
Nothing can happen until you are ready. It is all about adjustments and changes after it happens. By the way, Li Mu, don’t you and your wife plan to have another child? With your financial conditions, there is no pressure to have another child.”
Hear what Xu Jianhua said.
Teacher Zhou, who was peeling onions in the kitchen, stopped his hand and subconsciously glanced at Li Mu.
It seems that he is also waiting for Li Mu’s answer.
"It depends on fate!"
Li Mu smiled and replied, "Anyway, I have all my children now. It doesn't matter whether I have children or not."
"You have the conditions and you are so young. Being born into a family like yours is already a blessing for many children. If you work harder, your life will be wonderful."
Xu Jianhua said.
"As wonderful as you!?"
Li Mu asked with a smile.
"I am nothing wonderful, I am just wasting my years"
Xu Jianhua smiled noncommittally and said, "Do you think I hang out in bars and nightclubs all day because I like it!? It's not that life is too boring. I have to find someone to relieve my boredom. Li Mu, when your son grows up, do you want me to help?
Are you going to teach for a while!? With your son’s appearance and long legs that are not short at first sight, with such innate conditions, coupled with acquired learning, it is more than enough to go to South Korea to work as a security guard and become a rich man. I’m serious.
, I’m not kidding you, in a few years, if he leaves it to me to take care of him for half a year, his life will definitely be different.”
"Pull him down!"
Li Mu said helplessly, "He will still marry and have children honestly in his life."
"You think too much"
Xu Jianhua smiled and said, "Having such a handsome face already means that his life cannot go on according to your ideas. If you don't believe it, just wait and see! In ten years, or even less than ten years, his life will surpass yours."
There are some things that you can control as a father, but there are some things that you cannot control. You don’t allow Ranran to fall in love, and you don’t allow the little girl to take the initiative to pursue him."
"Perhaps by then, the little girl's aesthetic sense may have changed!?"
Actually.
As a father, Li Mu never thought his son was very handsome.
At best, it's only slightly better.
But he has sent his son to and from school more than once or twice, and found that there is no ugly child in the current kindergarten. They are all pretty, and his son does not feel that there is anything outstanding among them.
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As for many people saying that his son is beautiful, Li Mu only said it politely.
"Some things can be changed, and some things cannot be changed"
Xu Jianhua stood up from the sofa, held Ranran in his arms, pinched his face, and said, "Look! Your son's skin is very white. He is born with it and cannot be changed. His legs are long, so he should
Whatever the fuck, the lip shape is still a very rare cupid lip"
"Cupid lips!?"
Li Mu felt a chill.
"You don't understand"
Xu Jianhua replied, "With your son's little mouth, there will be many girls who want to kiss Fangze in the future."
"I think you should stop working in the company. You should go out and set up a noodle stall. You will definitely earn more than you do now."
Li Mu smiled.
"Hey! Li Xiaomu"
Su Xiaoxiao ran over, ignored Li Ran's struggle, straightened his head, and shouted, "What Uncle Xu said makes sense. I also think my brother Ran's small mouth is very sexy, very similar to Daniel Wu's mouth shape."
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"Oh"
Li Mu responded perfunctorily.
Then he didn't talk too much about this boring issue. Instead, he changed the topic and asked, "Xu Jianhua, I heard that when you got married, what happened? Was it a sewing machine, a bicycle, a radio and a watch!?"
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"That was the standard for marriage in the 1970s. When I got married for the first time, it had become the new four major items, which were a color TV, a refrigerator, a washing machine, and an air conditioner."
Xu Jianhua replied, "But we were pretty good back then. It's not like young people now who are really miserable. If you don't buy a house, you can't get a wife. Once you buy a house, you have to take a loan, and the loan requires monthly payments, and this monthly payment
It makes decades of struggle meaningless, as if your life is not lived by yourself, but for capital. It is no wonder that young people in modern society have become more and more shallow and empty, and they cannot feel the depth.
I find it extremely boring to have unrequited feelings and even normal human interactions, so I especially understand today's young people and feel that it is really difficult for them. Living in a society driven by material welfare is not a helpless thing.
!? If I were placed at the same age as them, I would have collapsed a long time ago."
Speaking.
Xu Jianhua asked curiously, "You got married some time ago. What does your wife want, a house or a car?"
"I don't want anything"
Li Mu's mood suddenly became particularly bright.
Turning around to look at Teacher Zhou, under Teacher Zhou's gaze, he raised his head and laughed and said, "Mother-in-law paid 100,000 yuan instead."
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