Li Mu smiled.
He did not answer the question.
With his current thoughts and mentality, it would be hypocritical to say "How can I try harder!?".
What's more, the ultimate goal of a man's efforts is not for others, but just to change his current life status.
If you make changes for yourself, you often have no right to complain.
However, in terms of results, his efforts have not been in vain. Even though he is not really rich yet, being rich is a blessing, and being rich is not necessarily a good thing. Li Mu is already very satisfied
As for.
Xu Jianhua said that his wife complained all day long when he had no money.
Li Mu can also understand.
After all, everyone living in this world has a habit of thinking.
"What you see".
That is "established".
Xu Jianhua's wife saw that he had no future at that time, so she decided that Xu Jianhua would not be able to make any money in the future.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with this.
Because the future is a very vague concept, often accompanied by elusiveness and the inability to give a specific formula. She does not know that Xu Jianhua will live in a villa and drive a good car one day in the future. All she can see of Xu Jianhua is
What it looks like now.
No future.
I can’t make any money.
Therefore, she can only treat him with the attitude that he can't make money.
It doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong.
It's just that most of the time the breakdown of a marriage is not caused by lack of emotion, but rather by the accumulation of complaints and belittling to a certain extent, eventually forming a weight that crushes the marriage.
This is why many couples divorce.
The first thing I did was not to shout loudly, but to cry silently.
Because the feelings are still there, it’s just the accumulated contradictions, the cracks formed in life, which have become insurmountable barriers.
As for Xu Jianhua, a rich man, he immediately hooked up with three people, which is not a mistake.
After all, Xu Jianhua’s wife forgot one of the most important things.
She knew Xu Jianhua, he was like that.
Choosing to marry him naturally meant that she accepted that this man was useless and could not make much money.
This just shows that Xu Jianhua's screw matched her screw cap back then. She also recognized this fact, but she still chose to complain after marriage, only forgetting that when the screw was gold-plated, he would definitely choose to deserve it.
As for the theory that "a one dollar lighter can light a ten thousand dollar cigarette", let's just listen to it as poisonous chicken soup.
Because in reality, anyone who smokes 10,000 yuan cigarettes has more than one yuan worth of lighters in his pocket.
So many times, when a rich man becomes bad, it's not that he really becomes bad, but that he chooses a beautiful woman who matches his worth and status.
And.
The greatness of a woman.
The reason is that she can clearly see her husband's future and silently support it.
Just like Jack Ma.
Countless people say that Jack Ma is great, and he is indeed great. After all, he almost brought down the bank on his own, saving many people the trouble of going to the bank and carrying cash.
It is not easy for one person to do this.
But in the eyes of people like Li Mu, his wife Zhang Ying is much greater than him. She allows more than 20 customer service staff to work in the living room of her rented room, making the home less like a home and the company less like a company. It is a noisy mess, especially when...
After failing to start a business so many times, if it were an ordinary woman, she would have asked him to leave school and teach, and she would still allow him to toss like this!?
However, they never wavered or complained from the beginning to the end.
Li Mu has seen a video before, which should be a video of Boss Ma crying in a taxi in the 1990s after failing to find opportunities.
Li Mu doesn’t remember exactly what he said. He only remembers that Boss Ma cried very sadly, but his wife comforted him later.
Failed so many times.
And go to comfort.
Change it to...even if it doesn't change to another woman, just change it to Li Mu's ex-wife Qin Muxue.
She will first criticize, and then kick Boss Ma out of the car without hesitation. After so many failures, how can you still have the nerve to get in the car!? Let’s go back to Zhejiang from BJ!
In fact, many times, as Buffett said.
"The best investment in life is to find the right wife."
If you find the wrong partner.
It is basically certain that one-third of life has failed.
Seeing that Li Mu smiled and said nothing, Teacher Zhou did not ask for details. It was not like she had never been in Li Mu's study. Naturally, she knew that Li Mu had made dense notes on many books in his study, especially at night.
This is something that Teacher Zhou appreciates more.
Bring the dishes to the table.
"You drove here, so you won't be allowed to drink"
Li Mu said with a smile.
"Yeah"
Xu Jianhua doesn't care about this.
He came here tonight mainly because he was grateful to Li Mu for speaking out today. Whether he wants to drink or not is less important. If you want to drink, there will be many opportunities at the KTV in a while, so you can drink as much as you want.
But before he drank, Xiaoxiao actually brought a bottle of beer to the table. Without using a bottle opener, he put his thumb on the beer bottle and directly opened the bottle cap with the thick end of the chopsticks. This skillful action was obvious to everyone.
Xu Jianhua was in a daze.
"What are you looking at!"
Su Xiaoxiao snorted coldly and said, "Have you never seen a beautiful woman drinking?"
"Li Mu didn't care about you!?"
Xu Jianhua couldn't help but ask.
"I drink at home but don't drink when I go out. How can I still be taken advantage of by you stinky men!?"
Su Xiaoxiao didn't use a cup when drinking. He took a sip directly from the bottle. This look gave him the impression of a rough man. After taking a sip of cold beer, Su Xiaoxiao made a comfortable voice and said, "Li Xiaomu, this is
He was so annoying that he asked me to have my tattoos washed off, and there was a rule for drinking beer. I could only drink one bottle a day. I only wanted to save his son’s face so I didn’t argue with him. If it had been anyone else, I wouldn’t have done anything.
"Bird"
Xu Jianhua chuckled.
He felt that the atmosphere in Li Mu's family was really good.
There is a noisy older girl and two cute children.
This kind of family combination is quite similar to the TV series "Family with Children", except that the older girl's way of speaking is a bit awkward.
After thinking for a while, Xu Jianhua said, "Li Mu is doing this for your own good. It's really not good for a girl like you to drink. In today's society, boys are very bad. If you don't drink, people can only chase you step by step. But once you get drunk,
It gives others an opportunity to take advantage of it. It is better to protect yourself when you go out than to call the police afterwards. After all, no matter how severe the punishment is, it cannot make up for your regret. Don't find Li Mu annoying, and don't turn a deaf ear to his words. He cares.
You are the only one who is willing to say a few more words, otherwise based on my understanding of him, he would rather make a cup of tea, read a book and bask in the sun than talk nonsense to you."
"Know, know"
Xiaoxiao waved his hand impatiently and said, "I have promised him not to drink when he goes out."
"This is best"
Xu Jianhua nodded and said, "A smart girl should know that there is a limit to everything. Don't always talk about "no regrets". Li Mu and I have seen too many people say "no regrets" turned into "no regrets".
Some regrets and remorse can be corrected, while some can only become a lifelong pain. No matter how long time passes, I will burst into tears when I think about it occasionally. What I mean by saying this is to tell you
You, "love has a certain degree of love, it's enough", especially if you are still young, please leave three points of room for maneuver before doing anything. One of these three points of room is for yourself, one for others, and one for caring for you.
people stay”
Li Mu looked at Xu Jianhua in surprise.
I didn't expect that he would take the initiative to teach Xiaoxiao about emotional problems.
But after thinking about it, Li Mu didn't stop him, because Xiaoxiao has reached the age of love. Generally, people of this age have emotional impulses similar to "give everything and never look back".
There are some things that Li Mu wants to teach, but he does not have rich emotional experience. Naturally, he does not have much experience to teach. Xu Jianhua is different. His grasp of emotions and human nature has already reached a very high level. Just a few words from him will go a long way.
It’s much more profound than what Li Mu said.
For example.
"There is a degree of love, as long as the love is enough."
It can be understood as dealing with emotional issues.
And three points of leeway is a philosophy of life.
This chapter has been completed!